It's finally beginning to make sense however...

TheRealEyesWideOpen · 2019-06-12T19:35:01+00:00

Just be you.

I’m serious as well; being in the reserves for almost 15 years will do that- along with my profession.

Just be light and breezy in your approach, and have a smile on your face. The rest tends to fall into place. When you don’t care about the outcome; life is oh so much easier. I will chat with a chick for 5 min, give her my number and excuse myself. Creates mystery and shows she’s one of many.

As you get older, and you take more of the Red Pill, you will find that you can quickly weed out the crazies and the ones that are not worth the hassle.

I am currently being chased by an early 30s potential plate. She’s (7/10) and has a good career; but she’s giving me the super clinger vibe on date 2 (almost went back to her place). Just the hassle of nexting her after she falls out of my rotation is just not worth it.

I’m no Chad but everyone gets shit tested. Yet the Chad will just brush it off or outright turn the tables. He approaches all relationships from a position of plenty not scarcity. He’s not afraid to tell her off, out her in her place, and walk away.

bravoamiga · 2019-06-12T22:22:58+00:00

Chads and any fucking man on the planet will always get shittests. Doesn't matter how high you SMV is, shittests will always come at your way. Same as the betaization process. These two things will never ever seize to exist.

Soft nexting only works when attraction is high. It doesn't matter if you've fucked the girl or not. If you're, say, dating a conservative girl who needs more nonsexual time to get her to bed than your average Ashley, and she gets to misbehave at some point and you don't approve of it, you nonchalantly and calmly hint at it. And then you soft next.

If she's attracted to you, she will learn the lesson and you'll see her showering you with her attention and she'll be begging to get back to you and suck your cock.

If she's not attracted to you, she'll probably forget about you in two days and move the fuck on as if you don't even exist.

As for the last thing, being playful, teasing, and light-hearted is a personality trait that not all people possess, and that doesn't mean that it's a bad thing. Some of us are jokers, others are quiet and peaceful. If you happen to be the second type, I doubt there is a problem. On the contrary, I think it gives more masculine vibes and that dangeroua mood of "Do not fuck with me or I'll fuck you". Being a joker sometimes gives the wrong impression.

spongemarble · 2019-06-12T19:53:08+00:00

Yes, they just pass easily and quickly so you don't always notice it
Soft next: yes she must like you enough to chase you Hard next: doesn't matter, you're essentially ghosting her
If you're actually naturally very serious and not just inexperienced/nervous you should do dry sarcastic teasing. Also learning game will always be uncomfortable at first, only you will know whether it's because what you're doing isn't your style, or if it's just because you're inexperienced

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-06-12T23:46:35+00:00

1) Do Chad's ever get shit tested?

Yes. Rarely.

2) Nexting; Is it only effective after you've fucked her?

What do you mean "effective?" She can't control the attention you give to her (Unless she's hacking your TV/Computer/calling your unlisted phone number).

And if I do try the whole teasing route, I just feel fake to the point it makes me feel uncomfortable. Any advice for this?

You mean teasing girls? Just make it so outrageous they can't possibly be offended.

Title	It's finally beginning to make sense however...
Author	Elephant_777
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	June 12, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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