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I've been getting a lot of "not yet" replies to number requests. Suggestions?

February 29, 2016
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Title I've been getting a lot of "not yet" replies to number requests. Suggestions?
Author Sketti-Os
Upvotes 1
Comments 9
Date February 29, 2016 3:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/ive-been-getting-a-lot-of-not-yet-replies-to.161424
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[–]DarkisKnight 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

In what context?

[–]Sketti-Os[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Mostly Tinder. If I continue to put in a little effort, the second time I ask for it, I usually get it, but it's more effort and time than I'd like to be putting in. The write-ups and videos regarding Tinder that TRP endorses are five lines and a number is given.

I usually just drop them once they say that, but if there's a magic one or two lines to get around that, I'd love to hear about it.

[–]DarkisKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's my belief that unless you understand and can game in real-life any type of dating app won't learn you the ropes. If you haven't successfully gamed in real life, drop the apps for a while and focus on that.

That said, I really liked this guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2noh59/gatsbys_tinder_game/

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Have an abundance mentality. Also don't respond to texts quickly.

[–]Sketti-Os[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I usually don't think about it. I'm usually at work, and only reply when I get a chance. Sometimes 2 minutes pass, sometimes 2 hours. What's a good range to shoot for?

[–]1MillionTinyHorses 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just reply,"How about now?" immediately afterwards.

Tinder has blown up and is not just populated by outright skanks anymore, but the reputation still stands. Some girls will try to play the "not yet" card so they can feel more reserved, or just to see how you will react. If you are still getting the number and meeting up in the end, who cares. There really are no rules. Just see it for what it is and push through.

[–]jeezydasnowman 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Stop getting distracted asking for numbers and maximize the interaction without worrying about a goal. Numbers are an afterthought.

[–]Sketti-Os[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I left out a pretty crucial piece of info - my bad. I meant online interaction, Tinder mainly.

I've been nexting, figuring it's not worth it. But now it seems like it's becoming a major roadblock.

[–]Endorsed ContributorAFPJ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been getting a lot of "not yet interested"replies to number requests. Suggestions?

Your tinder game sucks and / or you reply instantly all the time and / or you write like a pushover and / or you are a pushover and / or chicks want to get attention / see someone grovel before their irrelevant selves. Ignore everything that isn't a yes while impartially perceiving / fixing your shortcomings, whatever they may be. Sample size is key.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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