This is something that had crossed my mind over the weekend, but something kind of triggered the thought in my head again.
Right now, there's kind of a war between "feminism" and "men's rights". Some aspects of that are just going to have to keep fighting (ie. custody of your child).
But I wonder if, perhaps Feminism (as it exists today) isn't so much a "problem", as an opportunity?
Right now, women are essentially pushing men to adopt more feminine traits and approaches to problems. I don't think that's horribly controversial to suggest.
But instead of bitching and whining about it, perhaps it's a golden opportunity? That is, for the guys putting in the WORK.
I actually like women who have their own mind, who aren't afraid to push back. These I would consider to be "strong women". And we live in a society that, in many ways, is more into breeding weak men. But for the guys who rise to the challenge? You're essentially a god among insects. I mean, I think everyone here knows "what you want" and "what you need" are often two radically different things.
And women society is raising less-masculine men, while at the same time raising more aggressive women, it just means the supply-and-demand chain is getting HORRIBLY out-of-whack. Women want men that were uncommon to begin with, and now are so rare, they are left competing with each other.
For the record, I am very much in the "beta bitch" category. But I can also see the writing on the wall. With more people alive than ever before, and us all being so connected...
For the guy who really has his shit together, who puts work into himself...
You've basically got an entire planet of women clamoring for someone like you. You could be the next Ghengis-fucking-Khan.
And honestly, even as the "beta bitch" that I currently am... there's nothing so literally impossible to overcome, that I couldn't put myself in a very good position. So, I might still lose out to a lot of dudes, but as long as I'm the best option available to women, I could be their first choice.
And women are basically doing the dirty work of brainwashing other dudes, and keeping them from being all that they could be. So in a weird way, it's almost like the system is rigged towards men.
It's just that it's rigged towards men who actually give a shit about themselves.
So I need to get to work. So you should, too. Because whoeever gets there first, it's going to have a lot more options than those who follow.
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