(Kind of long)- Girl I’ve been seeing for off & on 2.5 years now.....we’ll call it 6 months vetting her for LTR so far tho... where I live we had a massive snow/ice storm this weekend and couldn’t really do anything anywhere. We spent 3 days together.. I wasn’t to lovey dovey we had a lot of fun sexually and other ways, I got shit/comfort tested a bit & passed, she bought me shit for Valentine’s Day, “I didn’t her” she made me dinner and breakfast whole time like she always does, basically everything I want.

Here’s my wtfmoment after she left, she texted me she wanted to be mine, I told her ?? She said I want to finally be all yours and you to be mine. I told her I’d prefer she’d elaborate in person “buy me some time”.

She said she would, and said tried to tell me this weekend but got nervous about it and then she said this..

“I just want make sure I don’t say something you don’t want”.....wtf that thru me off & made me think wait a minute I don’t know if like that, sound off??. I kinda just said oh ok and left it.. she sent me some pics and we traded a few texts thru the last 2 days about it & I was very dull not mean just kinda ehh towards her. She was blowing me up & being extra sweet and more flirty.. I sent her something dirty & she was begging me to come finish her off but I was at work and had the gym and told her she has to wait til this weekend.

She then texted me mm I can’t wait and not just for that but to see you too...here lately I miss you all the time...and ik you need time away from me but I want you to know that.. then I replied. Then she sent something and deleted it, cuz I saw the notification for deleted.

Then she texted me this.....”just so you know I’m not using you baby...drive safe to the gym please goodnight😘.. “guys does that sound off to you? she always says “only you😍” and “just for you😘” and all kinds of shit all the time I usually ignore it or give her a little bite of sweetness.

But...i haven’t went this far/long with a girl in a long time I’m new to the sweetheart side of things these days....She’s not my LTR & I have other options...so technically she can do what she wants but she’s in the running rn & if she fucks someone else I’m out 100%.

I replied to her wha?? Cuz it seems sideways to me, or else I’m overthinking it..

Shall I just ignore these things entirely & keep at it and just watch what she does? Or should I pry on those remarks a bit like “why would I think that?” Any advice appreciated.