Lingering feelings for ex-LTR despite fucking other girls

July 10, 2019
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It's been 4 months since I broke up with my LTR of 3 years, because she crossed some boundaries. Additionally, she wanted marriage and I didn't, so I thought I should let her go to find a beta. Fyi, we're both 42, divorced with kids.

Since the breakup, I've fucked 5 girls, following the GFTOG advice (go fuck ten other girls). I've turned 3 of them into plates or fwb.

The problem I'm having is that, if I'm honest, I still kind of have oneitis or something. My mind keeps going back to all the good stuff (ignoring the bad stuff). I was hoping that all the sex I'm having with other girls would nuke those feelings, but it's not working (yet?).

An I just being impatient and there's really something magical about the number 10 in the GFTOG advice?

Is the only way to truly get rid of these feelings by getting into another LTR, thereby replacing the old feelings with new ones?

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Title Lingering feelings for ex-LTR despite fucking other girls
Author mountainbiker178
Upvotes 5
Comments 11
Date July 10, 2019 9:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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