Lining a date up with a bumble bitch and she starts acting like a royal majesty. Am I a retard?

vazeline200 · 2021-01-01T23:28:01+00:00

Probably a FemaleDatingStrategy subscriber.

Jay-G · 2021-01-02T02:05:53+00:00

Honestly in the long run you dodged a bullet but you can learn from this. Being an alpha male with high smv doesn’t mean you bull nose your way around with a woman and force the stipulations. It’s about being desirable, fun, and sexual. You don’t tell her you’re not paying for her before the date even starts. You bring good characteristics to the table and show her how great it is to be out with you and when the bill gets there you say it’s split and tell her you only pay for your girlfriends and be playful about it. When she’s having a good time she’s willing to pay for that. When she feels like she’s trying to be controlled she expects a free meal for her services. Learn some game.

Curious_Educator3425 · 2021-01-02T02:18:06+00:00

That's not a date. It's a free meal strategy.

mahicks66 · 2021-01-01T23:16:06+00:00

There’s shit tests and then sometimes bitches are just bitches

Gettygetz · 2021-01-01T23:03:53+00:00

Walk away. Won’t be worth it.

MazerTag · 2021-01-02T01:24:42+00:00

If she acts like that before you're in a relationship, imagine how she acts when she doesn't feel the need to be nice or hide her crazy anymore.

NapoleonGreat · 2021-01-02T01:47:25+00:00

Sounds like crazy or drama queen

not worth it, there's hotter and less bitchy girls out there without all that bs

ghost her and next

Jdamoftruth · 2021-01-02T06:10:06+00:00

She says “I don’t drive for dates”

Should have just ended it there bud...reeks of entitlement.

It was just a stupid girl online seeking free food....you won

ItsNotD · 2021-01-02T00:37:25+00:00

You shouldnt have asked those questions in the first place, in my opinion.

But good you cut her off regardless.

drugsbeatsex · 2021-01-02T02:15:08+00:00

if you get mad at a girl she automatically wins. Would you be mad at a 3 year old? Jesus christ keep your frame up.

Physical-Pension · 2021-01-01T23:22:03+00:00

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smhfamswag · 2021-01-02T01:00:59+00:00

read the first sentence and she already seems like a bitch. these girls want men to do 100% of the work, while they just sit down and do nothing. fuck that shit.

ghost

Jolly_Relative_2105 · 2021-01-02T04:05:15+00:00

Her position is an effective way for women to vet for alpha fux and beta bux. When women behave thusly it’s a great opportunity for men to play with them and exhibit fearlessness (e.g., “I’m open to picking you up, but first round of drinks are on you”), and if she’s feeling you she’ll be into it. If not, she was looking for beta bux and you can next her. Dinner dates are lame first dates anyway and scream beta bux. Action dates—even working out or taking a walk—are way better.

dr_warlock · 2021-01-02T18:49:48+00:00

Its often not the guy, regardless of his 'game' it's because the cyber realm is a womans frame from all the simps on the DL that build it. Youll often see women go from flirty and cooperative in person to distant and bitchy when you switch to texting/social media because all of those notifications she gets overload her dopamine circuits and a create an extreme feeling of power/abundance. She's a celebrity. She wont entertain any other dynamic. There's nothing you can do.

Solution: Not tested, but in theory, you could bait n switch her as a fakesimp then slowly switch it up throughout the date. Keyword 'slowly' or rather 'smoothly'. Do it too fast and you set off the ego alarms.

glowing_dolphins · 2021-01-02T00:14:13+00:00

If she can get that, well done her. She’s an admirable player of the game.

If you don’t want to do that, then next. :) And onward with your game.

Live and let live in the SMP.

I’m not gonna complain because a shop stocks shoes in a size that doesn’t fit me.

RationalOpinions · 2021-01-02T05:12:52+00:00

I can't remember the last time I paid for a girl on a date over the past 5 years, and I only go out with 7's and over. They actually even pay for me at least 30% of the time. It's crazy how they'll almost fight you to pay the bill these days.

Unlikely_Composer · 2021-01-02T13:40:33+00:00

“Gentlemen” = beta who lays for dates and treats her like she’s been told she deserves.

Next.

Optionsmfd · 2021-01-02T01:00:54+00:00

its probably an age difference but picking up a woman and paying seem normal to me

that being said my history is always vetting the girls before we even hit the first date

usually from working with them... and normally sex happens before the first date.....

with covid its been tough sledding with my normal system and online in a small city being 46 has made the selection 50# overweight with 3 kids from 2 ex husbands

rad_dynamic · 2021-01-02T01:09:50+00:00

Why are you taking everything at face value?

Nod, agree, then fuck her brains out

Protocol_Apollo · 2021-01-02T01:27:11+00:00

“Same, guess you are gonna need to take a chopper then”

2021-01-02T02:32:15+00:00

She thinks you're a beta.

Girls would never risk this kind of behaviour with Chad.

temerity18 · 2021-01-02T08:35:59+00:00

You did well.

You still need to internalize the conviction you are the prize. Otherwise you would not ask the question here.

WolfofAllStreetz · 2021-01-02T15:24:34+00:00

Don’t invest anymore into this girl. Clearly has entitlement issues. Id ghost until her attitude changes. Withdraw attention until you get the desired result.

MrNeurotypical · 2021-01-02T18:23:27+00:00

I'm going to go ahead and partially disagree with most of the advice here. There are 2 possibilities:

She is an entitlement princess taking advantage of a nice guy
She is an elegant lady as pure as the wind driven snow who has strict morals and a proper upbringing.

You should repost or update the post or reply to this comment with her profile info. It would help to decide which she is.

daproest1 · 2021-01-02T00:26:37+00:00

U dodged a bullet. I pick girls up. They’ve offered to drive to me and I say no. I’ll pick u up. I always pay too. But my first dates are either free or cheap. And I don’t put up with any entitlement whatsoever

Title	Lining a date up with a bumble bitch and she starts acting like a royal majesty. Am I a retard?
Author	Physical-Pension
Upvotes	48
Comments	65
Date	January 1, 2021 11:03 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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