Little problems of a young christian.

AZTRP · 2015-03-24T00:19:36+00:00

I'd suggest asking this in /r/marriedredpill also as you might get something from the married Christian's there too.

Your line 'didn't have a condom' is going to bite you in the ass when she pulls one out. On one hand you say you want to stay a virgin but on the other you are playing with fire.

Some of the best sex I had was with a 5 born again Christian girl. Then again she'd usually cry afterwards about going to hell. (not joking).

From a Christian viewpoint you need to do what you feel you feel comfortable doing because anyone can Cherry Pick the bible for supporting passages for whatever it is they're doing.

From a non-religious viewpoint you are going to end up getting married very young if you're going to wait till marriage. Ask yourself if you are thinking about getting married just so you can stop being a virgin?

cascadecombo · 2015-03-24T03:09:21+00:00

As for sex with the girls being boring.

That is going to be up to you man, girls will look to you to take the lead. What you want you need to do and the girl will follow suit.

When you wait until marriage though, that is a risk, and while I would never advocate this sort of conversation in another setting, you would really want to be clear about what you expect to happen after you get married.

Axoc · 2015-03-24T06:13:32+00:00

The thing about boring vs exciting sex is that you can train a boring woman to become exciting but you can't train an exciting woman to become boring.

A woman who has never seen an actual dick before can be trained to be your fucktoy and great in bed, but a woman who has sucked 20 cocks in the past 36 hours can never be taught to be a good woman who won't cheat (for no reason), even if she somehow finds an alpha who will take her in. She will get bored.

Read The Sex God Method. You should be taking the lead in the bedroom anyway, so if she's bad at sex, it's honestly your fault because you aren't giving her instructions. If you're both virgins sure your first couple times might be off, but since you've "gotten women in bed" before, you should at least have some kind of idea of what's going on.

wickedwildewolf · 2015-03-25T10:10:50+00:00

Take the red pill with respect to religion.

NickCiufi · 2015-03-24T00:09:10+00:00

Matthew 19:8-12 NIV

Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.” Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

Title	Little problems of a young christian.
Author	Rhunta
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	March 23, 2015 9:38 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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