Found out my parents narrowly escaped being crushed by a truck today. I was troubled by the news.
So LTR called and said she was coming over to visit, I was walking her to my apartment,when we entered the building, I asked her to follow me through a new route to my apartment, she silently ignored me and took the old one.
I ignore her totally after that, even when we meet at the door. As soon as we're in the room, I call my folk to check on them while still completely ignoring her.
She gets pissed and says she wants to leave, I tell her to take her stuff so I can walk her to the bus stop.
On our way, she complains about how poorly I treated her, saying I transferred the aggression from the news I heard from parents onto her. I tell her I'm actually pissed off about the way she disrespected me by ignoring my admonition to take the new route.
I then lay into her a bit on the street, I do it quietly but she says it's embarrassing her and then in a fit of anger she blurts out that she wants to end the relationship.
I keep talking and walk her to the bus stop when I'm done.
She texts me when she gets home that she's home safe and thanks me for caring enough about her safety to walk her to the bus stop. Shortly after she sends a second text saying she's sorry for all the times she disrespected me and is glad I won't have to deal with it anymore, that she "hopes I have a nice time finding someone more respectful of my wishes".
TLDR; LTR disrespected me when she came over.
Lads, what's the best course of action from here?
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