ltr of almost a year wants to go to a music festival with her friends over the summer to see her fav artist. her friends going are thots, the type i would fuck and dump in college (didn’t tell her this exactly yet). They like to ride the CC and are sexual af.

anyways, i know a lot of guys in ltrs have their gfs do pretty much whatever - travel, party, go to music festivals, etc (idk how they’re ok with all this). i dont want to be insecure, but i also dont know if going to a festival with thot friends is appropriate. she asked if i would come too but said i’d be at school so she wasn’t sure, but to let her know if i wanted to. should i keep fucking her up until she goes then dump her? state my boundaries?(just dont want to seem like im insecure and ruining the fun)

with her last ex she had a ldr and would party all the time at her school with him not there, never cheated/talked to other guys apparently, and ik plenty of other girls like this as well. but girls tuen into something else when drunk so idk

input appreciated