LTR of over a year tested my boundary today. She talked about shitting, which I find not feminine nor attractive for a girl to talk about. I’ve set this boundary early on. She teased me about it in the group chat with her sis and bf yesterday, and I just ignored. She brought it back up today, and I told her point blank that I don’t like it and asked her not to talk like that in front of me. She kept trying to convince me, and I shut it down calmly immediately and told her case closed. She kept trying to argue, so I raised my voice and told her that this is my boundary, and I’m done with this conversation. She followed that with “stop being such a pussy” and saying “ok then you can’t burp or fart in front of me anymore”. I told her I’m hanging up the phone and hung up.

Two things at play here that bothered me. One is she felt comfortable enough to keep pressing the issue (not submitting), and the other is that she called me a pussy. I’m secure in my own skin, so the pussy thing only bothers me from a standpoint of disrespect, not insecurity.

Thoughts? Do y’all think she’s right, I’m right or both wrong/right? For reference, she’s invested a ton into the relationship, loves me a lot, craves my attention and the D, loyal and my dread game has been on point on the most part.