This has been going on for a while especially since starting TRP. The malicious women are mostly my sister and some family. I'm doing everything I can to blacklist them from my life. I've blocked them on facebook, for instance, but word about "what I was posting" comes back to me as if I'm a problem. The stuff in question was stuff my more masculine friends would share and I decided to nut up and start sharing it too like models, dude thoughts, etc. Harmless stuff. As of now, I have it deactivated and plan to keep it that way for the year. So that means they used a fake account or they're actively digging through others.

Well today, I overheard a phone convo with my sister and gramps while I stay with him. She was digging about info on me since I've not talked to her in a few months (the day I decided to black list her for her treatment to me a few months when I visited her). She said she was "hoping I was treating him well" as if I've become a cruel person to my own loving grandparents. She lied how she treated me and claimed I yelled at her and she had to ask me to leave. Now that I'm older and a recovering nice guy, it's no wonder I'm paranoid.

So it's natural that the crabs in the bucket want to pull me back in. I'm not fitting the "picture" that's in their head. I'm more shameless and selfish but not cruel. Yet women I know, mainly family, are digging to find anything on me. It's funny cause these same women used to be STRIPPERS, have been with actual abusive men, and etc.

Call me paranoid but my gut has hardly been wrong. I can forsee these women being a constant problem in my life even thought I've cut them out and blocked them. I have plans on moving several states away and build a new life. Anyone else have experience with this? How do you handle this malicious behavior? I would not put it past my sister to frame me. She always did growing up.

Edit: Most of the commenters undermine the serious context of these women and refuse to try and understand. You can't ignore these women (and people) forever.