In my first year of Red Pill. Been hitting the gym hard for about 10 months now, I'm definitely muscular but have a way to go and not yet close to a decent body fat %, but I'm happy with my progress and I only see it improving.
I'm a white British guy living in South East Asia. Back home when I was younger and slim I was a very pretty boy, so I'd say I was a decent 7.5 and never had any problems getting laid or finding a gf. As I've got older and my metabolism slowed down, I'm probably around a 6.5 due to fattening face & body as well as receding/thinning hairline. Over here in South East Asia being a white guy bumps you up a level or two.
Lived here for 5 years, always done well getting laid but now I'm into RP philosophy and I'm hitting the gym hard. At the moment I'm focusing on improving my SMV and reading a lot of theory, but I have done little real world practice because I'm saving that for when I've lowered my body fat % and I'm more confident in my gym body.
My situation is this: since I've become RP and become muscular at the gym, I get loads of attention from men. Gay men. In the sauna, in the mall, in the street, in the fucking public bathroom, guys check me out and some even cold approach me. It's not just because I'm a white guy - I'm used to that and got that all the time before - I can tell the difference between a local guy staring at a white guy and a gay man staring at a guy he wants to fuck.
My question is this: is this a good sign? I'm feeling quite frustrated that I'm putting this work in and the improvement in IOIs is coming from gay men. Asian women are even more of the mindset that the man should chase the woman, so perhaps I'm only getting the IOIs from the men because they're more predatory while the women expect me to do all the work. Gay men will always be more blatant and obvious because, well, they're men and that's what men do. Of course if my SMV was high enough I'd get IOIs from women, but I haven't noticed any increase on that side in spite of the massive increase with gay men.
Is the heightened interest from gay men an indicator that I am becoming more attractive to women as well, even if I'm not getting an improvement in IOIs from women?
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