My brother's own wife tried to cheat with me

mrpthrowa · 2019-03-04T04:20:15+00:00

So your whore-in-law grabbed your dick while drunk and you're about to have a mental breakdown?

Keep your distance from her. Your brother will wake up one day.

You are YOU, own it. Set your mission and go.

light-----------dark · 2019-03-04T04:40:07+00:00

great news - you’re not married. even better news - you’re not married to your brother’s wife.

use this experience to reflect on next time you somehow think it makes sense to get married.

don’t get married.

pursue your mission.

be your best self.

xNinja36 · 2019-03-04T04:21:43+00:00

Hows it hard to believe you just witnessed AWALT at its finest first hand.

"Shes never yours, it's just your turn"

Makes sure you tell your bro that, that's family and if she was willing to fuck you shes willing to fuck some other guy.

Edit: saw the part where you told him already. Your brother going to have to wake up the hard way like I had to go through....heartbreak

MrAgamemnon · 2019-03-04T04:51:01+00:00

Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game?

It doesn't even come down to game man.

It comes down to tingles and "the moment". Every single woman is susceptible to tingles at any time.... "Oops, it just happened"

ChesterRickman · 2019-03-04T05:45:37+00:00

I know nawalt

That’s where you’re wrong bucko, AWALT

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-03-04T05:20:21+00:00

Stop being a pussy.

Never be alone with her ever again. No Hamster ever accepted responsibility. If anything weird goes down, like she starts feeling guilty or some shit, all of a sudden it’s going to be you who made a pass at her. And it’s likely that your brother is a simp who will believe it.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-03-04T04:42:31+00:00

" I tried telling him but he refuses to even believe his own wife would do something like that so it ended up in a confrontational argument. "

You have to record it. Never tell a non RP man that his girl is no good, without any hard proof. The signs may be there but they will still give the bitch the "benefit of the doubt" to protect their egos. They need hard documented evidence to believe anything u say.

GAndGMethod · 2019-03-04T04:24:55+00:00

Just accept women are not loyal. That's all you need to do.

Your story is not even that crazy or shocking. its pretty routine female behavior.

She knows there will be no consequences, her man will ALWAYS believe her, sometimes even with hard proof.

She fucks you she knows you wont tell and destroy your family, you turn her down she knows he wont believe you.

she has nothing to lose, so why wouldn't she test the waters? It makes logical sense truthfully.

donkeydodo · 2019-03-04T10:33:55+00:00

NAWALT? No, AWALT; every woman has in her nature to do the stuff your brother’s wife did. It’s just that a minority of women have a better moral than to act out their nature completely

bittr_n_swt · 2019-03-04T07:19:30+00:00

That sucks. I agree, don’t ever be alone with her. Your bro might even take her side and you’ve lost him like that.

Popeman79 · 2019-03-04T13:52:15+00:00

It has happened to me (best friend's wife has flirted with me for a long time).

Girls have this plausible deniability that allows them to flirt while looking innocent. "Hey I was just having fun talking to you! You're crazy to think I would flirt with you" Meanwhile she will be in your space all the time, touching you when she gets the chance, pulling her hair, giggling, etc. You know what's up. But if you call her up on it, she will deny it and make you look like a fool. So don't address it unless you have undeniable evidence. If she crosses the line and straight up tells you that you're hot or that she wants you, then you can address it with her (but my guess is it won't happen).

So what do you do? You withdraw attention. When she starts flirting, don't act mad but just disengage. If she's 'drunk' and starts leaning on you and touching you (classic move), you just don't stay there, you take her by the hand and put her in the arms of a female friend or her boyfriend, saying 'Here now you take care of her'.

Thing is, even if you don't flirt back, if she sees she can get to you, or get you excited in any way, or get you insecure about what you should do, that's enough validation for her to continue. It's a power trip for her, even if she can't get you. Address it like if she was a 12-years old flirting with you: you wouldn't even entertain the idea, you would disengage without any further tought.

ainihon · 2019-03-04T09:19:07+00:00

People see what they wanna see man.

For me. Everyone’s guilty until proven innocent that’s how I see things now.

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-03-04T07:11:46+00:00

Nothing in life is permanent. It's a hard pill to swallow for stoics and Red Pillers alike but such is the nature of the universe. Enjoy what you have, and that you know things other people don't.

Dinomiteblast · 2019-03-04T11:37:09+00:00

Also, id cut contact a bit with your brother, if he asks why, just answer that you dont want her to come on to you again. That you dont want to be responsible for a break up because she cant keep her hands where they should be.

A setting where she is as well? Make sure you are never alone.

Mecha_Hobbit · 2019-03-04T14:01:11+00:00

Keep your distance. When she finds out you talked, she will try to destroy you and everyone in your family. She needs to save face & punish the wrong thinkers.

I'm betting you probably know this, but it still needs to be said.

AeternusDoleo · 2019-03-04T09:41:16+00:00

EWALT - and that's usually a very bitter tasting red pill to swallow. Best prepare for your brother to come to you for support in the future. If the monkeybranching starts, it does not stop. Only a matter of time...

mgtow1980 · 2019-03-04T13:24:09+00:00

Dude AWALT. You’re either gonna learn it the easy way or the hard way. It’s your choice man.

beginner_ · 2019-03-04T07:56:43+00:00

How can I hope to find a girl that loves me so much and expect her to not do this to another guy with better game?

You can't. that's one of the core points of TRP.

[deleted] · 2019-03-04T16:26:20+00:00

Contract-killers run cheap in Mehico..../s

Bone_Coat · 2019-03-04T16:44:08+00:00

next time the same happens, record the whole thing, sound, video or by WhatsApp recording and then put your phone in your pocket, this way you will have evidence, then ghost that bitch

omega_dawg93 · 2019-03-04T17:10:55+00:00

you lost me at, "...hope to find a girl that reciprocates true love."

OP, you're not quite there yet. start with reading rollo's essay, "burden of performance."

the love you get from women comes with a price... it will never be true (unconditional) love. never. romantic love flows from men to women... not the other way around.

afa your sister-in-law, use the voice recording function on your phone when she's around you... and play it back to him.

your brother needs to know what he's dealing with before he comes home to Chad, Tyrone, or Felipe pounding her out.

BookyMcBooks · 2019-03-04T06:36:34+00:00

Everyone needs to learn the hard way at some point.

huey764 · 2019-03-04T07:10:42+00:00

Remember, shes not his’, its just his turn

red_matrix · 2019-03-04T14:56:15+00:00

It’s guaranteed she’s done this before and this won’t be the last time. I don’t know how you can tell your brother, he should know but at the same time you have no proof. You could start by dropping red pill truth’s here and there and maybe he will eventually wake up. He probably already knows something is up.

monsieurhire2 · 2019-03-04T15:19:01+00:00

Well, at least women are after you and you're in demand. Yes, it's depressing that the supposed partners of the men in your social circle have no morals, but this isn't a new thing, it has been going on since the dawn of humanity. So, go out there and find some women of your own. If these women are making passes at you, you maybe spending too much time near them.

[deleted] · 2019-03-04T16:17:44+00:00

I tried telling him but he refuses to even believe his own wife would do something like that so it ended up in a confrontational argument.

The important thing is you've planted a seed of doubt. He seems blind right now but he'll be less likely to ignore any future sketchy behaviors. That said, brace for impact since many women like this will try to turn the tables and say you were creeping on her.

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-03-04T16:37:33+00:00

Honestly there are women that cheat and there are women that don't cheat, and its honestly pretty easy to tell. Because the ones that don't cheat make it obvious, and the ones that don't are willing to cheat.

I was out at a bar this weekend, I made out with 3 women in a group (all of them were together) and all of them had husbands. And they were out on a girls night and guess what they made it clear they had husbands in between dancing with me and kissing me.

Girls that put themselves in those situation do so because they want to cheat. This is what they do, they get drunk then just go to town, they hamster it like this: if I get wasted then that means I'm not accountable for my actions and I won't "remember" what happened so it didn't really happen, and I definitely didn't consent to anything "actively" because I'm drunk! It just happened! So they think they have plausible deniability with their actions.

And its even worse if their friends are active cheaters. The girl I made out with twice, has a husband who bought her fake tits has a "vault" and our makeout session was going in all of their "vaults" to never be spoken about again. Now imagine thats yours wife? How fucked up would that be?

8380atgmaildotcom · 2019-03-04T17:14:07+00:00

Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game

That is their morals.

AnyDoughnut · 2019-03-04T18:18:49+00:00

"reciprocates true love"

Knock that idea straight out of your head. Women are opportunistic lovers. There is no such thing as true love.

BusterVadge · 2019-03-04T19:28:42+00:00

Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game?

AWALT. Sort of. Some won't go as far as cheat but ALL of them will think about it, and have fantasies about it. It's biology and inescapable.

shredzro · 2019-03-04T19:33:46+00:00

I feel this spiritually OP. I’ve never had a problem being the “side nigguh,” to a girl I wanted. But I have also witnessed a few faithful women (literally barely any), so I keep hold to that thought. You’re right NAWALT but not every gun is loaded. You still treat a gun like it is.

Best of luck. Learn from your brothers mistake.

zxcvb7809 · 2019-03-04T20:07:10+00:00

Disclaimer not socially acceptable:

Story 1) In high school I was in a situation where my best friends GF wanted to fuck me. I told him he got mad at me. Didn't believe me. I showed him texts he thought I made it up. Eventually he came around.

Story 2) I made out with a good friend of mines GF in their bed when I was 19. He went to work. She was sending choosing signals I engaged. We would have fucked but she didn't want to because we didn't know when we would be back from work.

Story 3) I fucked a friend of mines wife when I was 21. They wanted a 3 way one time I engaged. She wanted to keep fucking on the side I engaged. I fucked the walls out of her. Me and him aren't friends anymore and I regret that.

Story 4) My friend liked a girl and I did not fuck her because I knew from prior experience that it is a shitty feeling. She wanted to fuck me and I could have fucked her easily multiple times. (He is married now and she is single and still wants to fuck so I am going to see her and fuck her in a few months.)

I have learned that women aren't worth a good friendship. I have also learned that men that don't understand that women are community property aren't really worth friending.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-03-04T20:26:22+00:00

Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game?

Humans aren't moral beings. Morality is not any different than the social mask and persona that we wear most of the time to avoid interpersonal conflicts. What you call morals amounts to conflict avoidance mechanisms like guilt, shame, and empathic reading.

What AWALT means is that everyone has the potential for behavior that is deceitful, destructive, conniving, cruel, profoundly selfish, and profoundly irresponsible, especially if they're not worried about the consequences of it.

So, yes, all women will feel tempted, some of them will indulge if they believe they can get away with it.

The issue with your sister in law is she probably has some mental condition that causes a reduced appreciation for consequences.

Also note that most people are perfectly willing to remain in a relationship with someone they despise if they get money and security out of it. So I think. really, she detests your brother and is trying to cause passive-agressive drama. Remember that women are cowards and don't want to feel directly responsible for a breakup because that would make them look bad.

Flannellord · 2019-03-04T21:03:08+00:00

Im fairly new to this sub, what is NAWALT ?

justlurking420 · 2019-03-04T21:31:04+00:00

I had sex with my brother's girlfriend and he doesn't believe it even though I dont have a history of lying. Now she is pregnant and about to have his baby lol

Casd12 · 2019-03-04T22:10:32+00:00

Is she hot?

[deleted] · 2019-03-04T23:13:28+00:00

Be thankful you have a brother and do the right thing. I'd kill to have a sibling, you have no idea how much it blows to be an only child. Do not ever risk your relationship with ur brother for a girl

Hellse · 2019-03-05T00:16:16+00:00

You won't, but let's go down the hypothetical road.

Let's say you do meet a woman whom you think might be one of these super-rare loyal ones. How do you know if she's a cheater in advance, you know... right up until the point where you catch her cheating? The most assured you can be that she's not is that you trust her. Which is interesting, because you'd think your brother trusts her. He did, after all, refuse to believe his own brother's warning. So what assurance is that trust worth, exactly? Nothing.

friendandadvisor · 2019-03-05T03:53:51+00:00

Avoid her from now on. The next time she's drunk, and you reject her, she'll blame you for rape or attempted rape.

Maybe if you hadn't told your brother, but, you did, so...

CahiersDuVidya · 2019-03-05T17:00:34+00:00

Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game?

No but its disturbingly prevalent. Though honestly, your brother is likely getting lazy in gaming his wife and that's the only reason this is happening. Just getting married and having kids doesn't mean your girl will magically be faithful. You have to ALWAYS be the man to her.

I tried telling him but he refuses to even believe his own wife would do something like that so it ended up in a confrontational argument.

You did what you should have.

BluBlac59 · 2019-03-06T04:34:28+00:00

You love your family sooo much. That's pretty soft and needy. I'll bet he doesn't believe it because like you be loves her sooo much that he's afraid to treat her like a slut and bang the hell out of her. Having a few drinks lowered her inhibitions and she's needy. It's one of the reasons some women drink, to give themselves permission. He's probably one of these guys that is always attentive to her "needs" and screws her by the numbers makes sure she comes first then he comes. Never gets a sloppy blowjob or jerks his load off on her. She's bored and needs to fuck. You need to learn from this and quit this I love them sooo much stuff. You sound like an old woman. Get away from them and quit being such a needy pussy. My bet is she will say it was you that hit on her thus forcing you out of your brothers life. Consider it a lesson learned, kinda sucks doesn't it ?

Velebit · 2019-03-04T06:02:54+00:00

Are you from a rednecky background?

ass-my-eat · 2019-03-04T15:56:32+00:00

Shoulda fucked her

zeldij23 · 2019-03-04T08:40:52+00:00

" Are women so loose with morals that they will cheat with any guy that has better game?"

Nope, it's just that you're brother's wife is a bitch. Don't put all women in the same basket...

rektum_expander · 2019-03-04T08:17:17+00:00

Tell him.

Rhyat250 · 2019-03-04T16:26:39+00:00

Ik you this a rant but try to avoid using "goddam" please

Stallmanman · 2019-03-04T23:35:29+00:00

lol i love the incel fanfics in this subreddit

Title	My brother's own wife tried to cheat with me
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Date	March 4, 2019 4:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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