It was an early night, but no one was really interesting. I came with a wingman who I've been with from time to time. She was latin, sort of had that sophisticated look on her frame, face and overall presence.

She was looking for something serious, she wants older men, my wingman (who he knows from a class) say. But we chatted up, got to a great point until dancing starts.

I suck at dancing, didn't expect to dance, always expect to dance! Since I'm months out from clubbing, this shot me down and plus, I was pretty tired.

She was welcome to the idea of coming with her to her late after party. I didn't plan ahead, so I couldn't go. She was great, oh well, there are plenty of fish next time...

Quick lessons learned...

  • Always have a plan, or expected result. I came in there not expecting anything, it's a good mindset but I didn't yield any results. I also focused on one particular woman, her, for the rest of the night

    • People came there to have fun, what was I thinking? I had the cards before dancing started. Even then, I should have had more energy saved up. My wingman got her off her feet, I was left standing aside watching them kiss
    • Don't confide with your wingman afterwards. They're not therapists, and this really ruptured my relationship to an otherwise awesome wingman. He gave me the floor to dance with her, multiple times, I was being like a bitch. If you're going to leave the club, don't bring along the wingman, simply say I'm leaving

Questions...

  1. I guess the simple answer here is that I just have to bring better cards next time. She was willing to kiss someone leagues back from her initial interest (the blonde bouncer over there) even though my wingman and I were young, everyone is there to have fun. But what do I do when the girl literally doesn't give you the number?