I know how powerful mystery is. I read somewhere in this sub to “treat conversations like a game where you are trying to get the other person to say the most while you say the least”. This seems very effective for surface level relationships but I wonder is this feasible in LTRS? How do you just go around barely talking?
As opposed to self disclosure and finding things you have in common with people? I’ve noticed sometimes I could listen to someone for a while and then disclose about myself and they seem instantly turned off.
I also do this assertively, as in Im not going around being everyone’s therapist. When I have time and the desire to talk, i listen
Thoughts?
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