Need help in clearing out my mind.

swolesamoan · 2021-03-12T07:15:59+00:00

I feel you. I had the same feeling when I stumbled across the female dating strategy sub. I was appalled at the things these women were saying. It’s actually quite hilarious though, a bunch of women supporting each other and hyping each other up to degrade themselves. Meanwhile, in the Manosphere we are helping each other become stronger and smarter men, something that would actually benefit women who deserve it. These women are helping each other ruin their future relationships. No guy deserves to meet the woman of his dreams only to find out she had a dark and promiscuous past, it’s fucking disgusting.

bachbozo · 2021-03-12T05:34:30+00:00

Quit assuming; my mom has been faithful to my broke (at times), abstract painter father for 30 some odd years because he is an alpha motherfucka dedicated to his purpose.

Be the man and treat a quality woman right, ain’t that complicated

vov1n · 2021-03-12T06:22:07+00:00

Try to marry foreign women then, preferably from 2nd world countries, in this day and age it's not that hard to meet them. Majority of women in our generation are sluts, you like it or not, deal with it and ones who say they aren't, most likely are lying, so if you still want to wife-hunt, try that in non-western countries.

woyspawn · 2021-03-12T08:22:23+00:00

Get'em young! If you are serious about going the traditionalist / religious way. You need to find a nice girl and snatch her before she is ruined.

Most girls (actually most everybody) are serial monogamist with a couple of wild stages inbetween.

What you talk about, sounds closer to american college culture than american society where the average woman has an N count lower than 5 (and that includes hippies).

I'm assuming here, but india should have lower numbers. So yes, it might be hard to find a virgin in india, but finding a low N count woman shouldn't be hard.

Just don't loose time, once you start dating/vetting be open about what you want (ie dating for 2 years, then Cohabitation, then marriage and kids before 30 or whatever is your plan) and stick with it.

Be warned about the cheating / divorce risks. You may play your cards the best you can and still loose. That's life.

CameOnHerBitties · 2021-03-12T09:24:16+00:00

3.5 billion women in the planet. You're telling me you can't find one that you like?

Iturniton · 2021-03-12T08:08:57+00:00

Pretty simple. You don't fish for a chicken in a pond. Meaning if you're looking for a girl to bang, go to clubs and bars. But if you're looking for someone to marry, look for them at places decent girls would haunt.

adam-l · 2021-03-12T08:24:54+00:00

Check out my posts, I've written some about marriage and having kids.

Wtfbyamey · 2021-03-12T10:24:27+00:00

Become a MANWHORE AND STAY ONE YOUR WHOLE LIFE

yellowdopamine · 2021-03-12T10:39:25+00:00

Be a rich, successful, admired and jacked guy and you'll be able to find the girl you want.

You're very young. Work on yourself first and it will be easy for you.

FollowMeKids · 2021-03-12T17:36:42+00:00

You. Think. Too. Much.

But then again at 20 your mind is still learning. So when you get more mature, none of your current thought process matters. What you think and feel now will 100% change.

aestheticbody · 2021-03-12T06:13:12+00:00

yep slutty girl will always exist but important part is u find out your type girl and this girl somewhere in earth

lamatoms · 2021-03-12T12:15:14+00:00

Fellow Indian here. Yup you're right. It sucks when you're a man in your earlier 20s. Girls get attention a lot and it takes a lot of your time and effort to get some. I would say if you can hold on to it and build yourself the late 20s would be amazing. I'm turning 26 this year. The effort required to gets some girls attention is lower compared to a few years go. I know it sounds shit but you gotta earn good money and be independent. Get used to getting comfortable in your own skin. You'll attract the girl you're looking for. Or the type atleast. Change your traditional aspect a bit if possible. Virgin subservient wife is non existent. Look for someone you can grow up together with or is independent but loyal.

goblinboglin · 2021-03-12T12:59:00+00:00

I saw a great comment somewhere.

Women are able to edit reality in a way you can't comprehend.

They know they are fucking sluts and any real man that knows his worth wouldn't want anything long-term with them. That's why they lie about their numbers and shit lol.

Fuck monogamous relationships. Unless you can provably find a clean woman. You don't want cum leftovers for LTR or even plate that you are affectionate with.

3dasak · 2021-03-12T14:43:03+00:00

Marry a 3, you'll be happy

SenorTonto · 2021-03-12T15:02:14+00:00

the reality is that life involves risk. Yea what you are saying is troublesome; the lack of moral/ethic orientation of the modern woman, but there are ways to lean the odds of finding a decent woman in your favor.

you say you have good social status and a culture that pushes marriage. Use your family. Get help from your mother or father to find someone suitable. I know in the west this is looked down upon but our parents often know us the best and can help us find suitable marriage options. I cant speak for everyone but I would trust my parents judgement.

We arent meant to do these things on our own but the west pushes this lone wolf perspective navigating life and figuring everything out on your own. Use those around you to your benefit. they raised you and probably know whats best for you

VigilantCMDR · 2021-03-12T15:09:50+00:00

hey man in the same spot as you here's my advice

find a real woman, vet her hard.

by find a real woman, don't go on tinder. don't go to the bar. don't go to the clubhouse. find someone idk in a grocery store or at a park or something and VET HARD.

trust me, there are women out there that are legitimately faithful and legit partners. but it also takes you to hold your end in the relationship too, don't be some beta bitch and the chances of cheating are reduced

while its not impossible to dodge the bullet. i almost wifed the school slut on accident after not vetting. then i almost wifed some chick who was deep down a slut (texting her ex).

both of those could have been avoided if i just listened to the thousands of red flags they dropped.

sure, my current has dropped a few red flags, but not anything close to the hellstorm the other girls brought.

don't be an idiot and get those rose colored glasses because a girl makes your dick feel good.

think logically, consult with real alpha friends frequently, (ie: do you guys think her hanging out at her exes house was weird? or is it just me?) and hope those friends hold you accountable. they can really help you by just saying 'dude, you need to leave her'.

and ALWAYS FOCUS ON YOUR MISSION FIRST. trust me, women will love you if you focus on your mission first. and if you put your mission first, if she cheats on you- it doesn't matter, you got bigger fish to fry.

kellykebab · 2021-03-12T17:48:04+00:00

Vet as hard as possible, marry a younger woman than the cultural norm (now 28-29, which is obviously stupid), make yourself the prize so that you have as many options as possible, and then after that focus as much as possible on a meaningful mission and on having a harmonious family.

You cannot literally control what other people do. You can only deal with the consequences. So, at some point, maturity involves accepting the world as it is. That doesn't mean that you disgard your values. You should retain your values. As much as possible, they should inform your choice of partner. And you should pass them on to your children, hoping that they transcend this increasingly debased culture as much as possible.

But at the end of the day, you have to work with what you are given. And sadly, what we are now given is objectively worse than what the last few generations were given. That is simply the reality. So, make the best of it and aspire to something more perfect than the norm, but don't lose sight of what reality actually is. Otherwise, you will become too bitter and defeated to do anything good.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-03-12T20:35:29+00:00

[Disclaimer: no disrespect to whatever your culture is, but just speaking straight facts.]

Fuck doing what your culture wants you to do,

Do WHAT YOU WANT YOU TO DO. You have to live with every decision you make, you have to take every l, every instance of her cheating, every instance of her nagging, every instance of her denying sex, every instance of her draining your wallet dry, her cucking you, her divorce raping you into a poor house(and a seedy motel with a cheapass bottle of liquor and a pistol with 1 bullet).

Your culture ain't gonna carve your path, live your life, or take those L's...YOU ARE.

Your life is not set in stone OP, it's carved by your decisions, your hardwork, and your determination to bring YOUR vision into fruition.

Good luck OP.

Pezotecom · 2021-03-12T14:22:30+00:00

TRP is a set of tools to navigate the sexual market place.

Why wouldn't you want a girl that's sucked 20 dicks? Why would it be wrong to fuck 10 guys, why would it be right for you to bang 30 girls?

Can you answer these questions? without saying something about women being locks and men being keys.

reduxDev · 2021-03-12T08:19:47+00:00

Eh, just like any other type of people there are an overwhelming amount of shitty ones out there, just avoid them.

Life is something like 95% figuring out what you don't want.

I don't consider time getting to know random girls as a waste. You're just trying to figure out if they're sluts or not and you usually find out your answer.

Sometimes hypergamy is actually a good sign. When I first was getting to know my LTR I wrote her off at first (which helped me not give a fuck) because she acted hypergamous right off the bat. Asking me about my status, how much I worked out, ect. Trying to see if I was worth her time because that was important to her. I figured she wouldn't really like me for me, but it turns out her extreme hypergamy is because she was virgin really looking for that one guy to give it all to.

I'll probably marry her sometime soon, her hypergamy being very upfront was unsettling at first, but it's clear as long as I keep my game up she'll be there by my side and she is 100% invested in me. I'm a red pill guy I know better than to get married, but I figure if you're going to get married, this is exactly what you want. No nonsense just fulfilling each other's needs over a long term.

I would say hunt women who seem extremely spoiled, picky, stuck up and act like they're better than you. Odds are they're full of shit and are actually very lonely waiting for their "Mr. Perfect" and if you actually try you'll be the closest thing they can find. And this might be racist but avoid white women lol. It's not like my gf is a prude or a good girl, she partied alot because her friends did and she wanted to fit in, but had the common sense to avoid ruining her life like they did. These girls aren't that rare, but they're hard to find, camouflaged well and usually don't get out much.

My girlfriend is actually Indian, her parents taught her well, but if I didn't make literally triple what she doesn't she probably wouldn't look at me. But without me she has nothing and before I came along she was waiting for me.

alexaxl · 2021-03-12T09:57:22+00:00

Now also go ask them about high body count males;

Chads / Players
P4P

And then see at what point they approve or disapprove of that.

Compare between the two threads and share what you find.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-03-12T13:05:29+00:00

You can still learn things from this sub but it's useless for any of us to give you advice that is going to get trumped by your cultural direction.

Best thing you can do is find a mentor from your culture who's as RP as can be and express to him these concerns.

Lastly, the feminists are checking the RP subs and having the exact same thoughts you're having about them. At the end of the day, it's just sexual strategy. Don't listen to a woman about how to be a man.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2021-03-16T06:18:55+00:00

Who cares what women do? You're focusing on women and putting them up on a pedestal just by over analyzing them. The opposite of love is not disgust but indifference, which is why anger phase guys are just as blue pilled as feminist simps. Do you think chad cares if the hot model he's banging has had someone before him? Do you think he ponders the state of western women while he's living the dream? You need to stop thinking and start doing and youll be less depressed.

Title	Need help in clearing out my mind.
Author	Actual_Camp_f_me
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Date	March 12, 2021 5:11 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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