Hello all. Im not a newbie, but im drawing a blank on how to pass this cascade of texting shit tests from this 'alpha' female on POF. Its probably not necessary to include our whole conversation, but I will anyway as it should be a decent example.

Summary: strong 31 yo 'alpha' female sort hits me (29) up on POF, and gives her #. She wants FWB and has pre-selected me. Commence texting and things going well, but shit tests escalating. Need a text game expert to get girl out of the house. She is HB6 and I am a physical 8.5, hence she approached me. All texts and or msgs were answered by me with a minimum of 15 minute baking period. 2/3 rule, underinvestment etc

On POF:

Her: Hi Tommy (pink bow emoticon)

Me: hey

Her: How's your week going?

Me: good you

Her: Passed came out of the gym to a blizzard haha. Wtf. Teased with that warm weather.

Me: lol whatre you looking for

Her: Fun. No drama. Friends with bennies deal. I'm a chick who like to do a lot of guy things. Out of two long terms. Being selfish with my time and where I wanna go so not looking to tie down. Just being honest.

Me: sounds good

Her: You? Give me a little on you.

Me: lets text whats your #

Her: [gives phone #]

Later on, now in text messages:

Me: [with my POF profile picture] names tommy

Her: Hey tommy do u have a picture of ubthat is not ur and? [sic: abs]

Her: Abs

Her: Names Jackie

Me: [sends requested picture] nj native?

Her: Same here. What town?

Me: cedar grove you

Her: Manahawkin LBI.

Me: [thumbs up emoticon] πŸ‘and what neighborhood now

Her: Long Island.

Her: Yourself?

Me: bedstuy brooklyn

Her: Word

Me: about me-im into the gym hardcore, clothes, image. aggressive, like books, music, art. i woodwork custom furniture cabinets im working toward having my own shop & construction

Her: That's awesome! Glad to see you have a passion. I want to open a gym one day! I teach.

Her: Teach fitness that is not real school haha

Me: thats what you do for a career

Her: That plus many other things. I run my own business as well judge much.

Me: whats the business

Her: I do makeup and hair for fashion, movies, tv, music videos, and big weddings.

Her: I also. Perform, coach many things, teach, beauty advisor for cvs, artist (painter drawer). Like I said many jobs.

Her: Are you seriously judging me? Haha don't cast stones in a glass house my friend.

Me: πŸ‘πŸ˜very impressive. a dominant man like me, prefers a strong career woman πŸ˜‰

Her: Usually very dominate men don't like me. I can't be controlled. Try and it will get worse. I don't take shit. I respect myself and won't chase you, unless I fuck up. I'm independent, so I do what I want when I want. And I win at almost everything (even pool and cards). Usually an ego will step in an sat something fucked up. I rely with something smart and clever and boom he now doesn't like me. I prefer a man like that. Not someone that feels he needs to dominate people to feed his own ego and self confidence. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜˜

Me: you sound like my type. dominant = confidence, success, taking the lead, competitive, assertive, outgoing. you described a domineering bully. i need a partner independent, sassy, competitive, femme

Me: dominant isnt controlling or egotistical

Her: It's not controlling it's that you feel you are above others. Maybe not all but some. Confidence is a great thing as long as it comes from the right place. πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‰

Me: true

Her: 😊

---end of conversation, 48hr radio silence---

Yesterday:

Me: hi

Her: I'm sorry who is this?

Me: tommy from pof

Her: Oh. Hey what's up?

Me: shyt wbu

Her: busy day

Me: what town you in

Her: I'm sorry but you can ask me a question that isn't where I live. Haha. You already asked me that. I also don't know you enough to tell you. I'm private about that sort of stuff cause of past issues I have had. No offense.

Me: you must have some great stalker storiesπŸ˜‚. i asked cuz im setting up a date w you in which im gonna meet you halfway between us

Her: Oh you are. Who says I'm interested? I know nothing about you. Muscles don't fool me.

Me: so adorable when youre in your defensive crouch. a true alpha female=]

Her: Hahaha you may be one to br ask through that. Honestly had a killer day! Fitness is a big deal to me and had a famous instructor pull me out of class to join his team, travel, and teach. So pumped.

Me: you want a cookie or a medal

Her: Both I gave up sugar! Hahah

Me: youll get to know me - in person tho. coffee this week to talk see if we click

Her: No thank you. Best of luck to you though. And Happy hunting. πŸ˜πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ˜‰

End conversation

Where do I go from here? There is alot of IOI and shit going at play. She wants it. Im set on meeting her. How do I get the bitch out the front door?

EDIT: she just texts me out of the blue with this. random and verbose but OK.

Was trying to be nice and polite. You're just not what I'm looking for. No biggie. We don't know each other anyways. You seem like a decent guy and you're handsome many girls will want you. I'm just different and weird. I do yoga meditation and firmly believe in always being nice, giving to others, and looking for someone the on the same boat with meditation, yoga, crystals, and belief in something most don't. No judgment here at all. Just know exactly what I'm looking for. And a man who would respond that way to something excited about a dream and goal coming true isn't for me πŸ˜‰πŸ‘πŸ»