Need some advice with this...

EdvardMunch · 2016-03-24T05:27:35+00:00

Just remember to remain sexual. The fear many guys have in falling into the friend zone isn't to be feared when you maintain frame. What happens is a lot of guys start to suppress it for "loves" sake, "you're more than just someone I want to fuck" or some white knight crap.

You can actually build things with her without escalating if you maintain who you are and you're needs.

Want to kiss her? Just stop the conversation, start at her, and do it. Easy as that. Likely if she likes you she wants to kiss. And if she doesn't you'll know when you try to kiss her. That's polarizing.

From kissing it's easy to escalate to touching, feeling other parts, slowly making your way to more territory.

I don't recommend going overboard especially in your situation. If you fuck too soon you'll lose sexual tension and the something still left to be had. Unless it's a one night stand, gradually working into sex is best.

Sex is pretty easy. The thing to remember is following your instincts and being comfortable with your body.

[deleted] · 2016-03-24T08:00:45+00:00

This lesbian(bi) just moved here

She says she's lesbian. Heh, I bet you she'll experiment with dick.

I've never even kissed a girl before, so I have no experience in this at all

Touch her. Forget all you've read about respecting women, remember how you used to play with girls as a kid? Do that. Tickle her, touch her, push her lead her.

My fav kiss escalation: Make a fist behind her head, grabbing her hair, if she doesn't complain, pull her to you and kiss her.

pushing her to a wall might also work

RPSnuggles · 2016-03-24T16:29:45+00:00

Hahaha. You start with kino mixed with joking. The kino leads to attraction and tingles. Once you see enough IOIs (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cortx/heres_a_little_list_of_iois_feel_free_to_add/) . That's when you escalate to a kiss.

Thing is, you just fucking do it. Don't think about it. Just fucking do it. The moment you think about it is a moment too late. Do it like a reflex. She will smile or she won't. OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. You just do it. Start with a peck on the lips. If she likes it, you will tell by her not recoiling. Wait a second. Put your hand behind her head or far shoulder. Go from peck to your lips between her lips like a sandwich. Don't go for the full on tongue right away. That's fucking weirdo shit. Let her be the first for the tongue. Go slow with tongue. Don't rush. It's simple shit.

Just be cool. Don't overthink it. It's not a mathematical equation. It's a natural thing. Make it natural. Be natural. A woman wants a chill dude not a scaredy cat. So be that chill guy. Act like whatever is cool. Act like she can trust you and be warm. At the same time, be decisive. There is no "right time".

Guess what? You will fail with women a million times in your life. The key is to actually try. Now, I wish I were your age with my knowledge. The thing is the more situations you put yourself in like this the better you get. Kissing, talking, flirting are all skills which you get better at by doing more of it.

Guess what? If you fail, you can still get a kiss out of it. AND, you can make her jealous by flirting with another girl immediately after. Don't get all hurt.

PS: She's too young to know what she is. She will try anything with the right guy. The right guy is the guy who makes her feel comfortable with his non-judgement and his stoic, carefree attitude.

SkorchZang · 2016-03-24T05:16:00+00:00

I have at least gotten a group of friends and a couple of hobbies and interests to better myself(basketball, drawing, animation, reading, engineering)

Very nice

This lesbian(bi) just moved here

They're all like that.

I suggested we should chill and match(weed) and she agreed.

Like a boss.

Ended up chilling at my house for a couple hours and her mom picked her up, nothing happens.

It's a bitch to explain it in words, but I have 2h of video for you that will set you on the right track exactly:

"Top 10 Mistakes Intelligent Men Make With Women" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qigOUdAOyRs

"How to Get Sexual Like a Man" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nuvL7Dk8x8s

Apexk9 · 2016-03-24T05:02:54+00:00

I know you're 15 and probably don't have balls yet but just fucken make a move.

Title	Need some advice with this...
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Date	March 24, 2016 5:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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