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Night Club Game?

January 5, 2014

Hello TRP!

I've been lurking TRP for almost half a year now and been working on applying it to my every day life. I'm currently 18. I've had no trouble gaming girls at bars and night clubs where you are able to move away from the dance floor and to a place where the music isn't too loud so you can have a conversation. But tonight I was forced to go into one of those clubs where the music is way too loud, the girls are slutty and there are a lot of muslim/black guys being very aggressive and offensive with the girls and willing to cockblock and/or threaten you because of a girl(Note I'm not a racist I'm just sick of their behaviour since they are not getting the girls anyway, just ruining it for the rest of us because they can't get it, makes me fucking sick and mad). Just this night a friend I was with at the club got punched in the face because he was dancing with a girl some guy wanted to dance with(the guy didn't know the girl). I knew from the start my game wouldn't be top tier, I've been there before never had much success.

Tonight I was at the dance floor with my guys without much hope for hitting on girls, just having fun - while one of them tried hitting on a few. Plenty girls bumped into me most of them more than once, which makes me think it's not a accident but I didn't do much - most of all because it's always kind of a sausagefest so most of the time guys will try to interrupt your dance and the girls think their value are way too high - the girls are pretty much free to choose, for each girls there is around 3 or 4 guys.

So my question is: How do you guys game girls a night clubs and isolate them from the obvious AFCs and their jealous girl friend Note: Most of the time I'm at night clubs it with pretty terrible wingmans who are unable to hold the attenttion of girls for more than a few minutes. I'm a terrible dancer but I don't care as long as I'm having fun.

This was written just after I got home.

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Title Night Club Game?
Author Jkobzen
Upvotes 2
Comments 6
Date January 5, 2014 3:56 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/night-club-game.138727
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/1ufq5u/night_club_game/

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't. Night clubs are horrible for pulling chicks. Even the ugliest girl has a bitch shield as big as the moon and while you can certainly become very good at it, it's just not worth enduring their bitchy attitude.

[–]RedBigMan1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Nightclubs are basically almost tailor made to fulfil a woman's hypergamy and reward circuits to the extreme (plenty of free and easy male attention). You can do the nightclub scene but you have to realize that it's effectively like playing the game on hard mode. Also the quality of women you find in clubs are going to be rather low.

Basically if you choose to partake in the club scene you're basically engaging women on their own terms.

There are many guys in TRP who would advocate getting away from the club/bar scene and approaching women in other scenarios. I mean nightclub game is important but not as important as being able to approach a woman at any time and in any place for improving your chance at success.

[–]Jkobzen1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Well I'd like to start day game but that will pretty much wait a few months, since I live in a small town with my parents until I finish the last year of my gymnasium. I live en Denmark and have heard lots of talk about how much harder day game is here, due to us being very reserved - so it's sort of demotivation but I'll just have to get into to my mind the success rate will be very low. Currently the only place I game at fridaybars at the gymnasium, student parties at the gymnasium, private parties, bars and a few times clubs.

But let me get this straight, your advice is to get started on day game and then move into the club game because the confidence you achieve from the success will improve your SMV in the night clubs?

[–]RedBigMan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

But let me get this straight, your advice is to get started on day game and then move into the club game because the confidence you achieve from the success will improve your SMV in the night clubs?

Well that is the theory but if you feel that the night club is easier to do then perhaps you should do that. The thing is with day game is that you are approaching women on your own terms and there are not nearly as many cockblocks or other external factors to thwart you aside from the woman just being too busy to do something.

Also you need to approach from the abundance mentality. Success rate does not really matter in anything other than ensuring how fast you will get laid or the frequency. Even if you have only a 5% chance of success all you need to do is approach 20 women before you find one who's interested.

[–]The_Child_of_Atom0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

read my recently posted post and if it is for you i could send you my program for 2014 where this is included

edit: it wont cost anything xD i want to give

[–]mrpoopistan0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I encourage guys to try a catch and release technique in clubs. Basically, go up, have your fun, be as physical as possible, and then move on.

Women in clubs love that shit. They have tons of guys just pressing relentlessly to keep their attention. The guy that hooks them is the one who acts like they barely exist.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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