I'm 22, she is 41... Saw her ID. Met on tinder. We met in public after a well of talking, went to her place, had sex.

  • post sex mentions she is married but separated and they only had sex five times in five years... Also said she didn't care if i had a gf

  • starts taking about how they separated a yr ago and she met and was dating someone 'for a long time' after that who broke her heart. I clarified that she has just said she was separated for a year and this person who broke her heart came after she was separated. She said yes.

  • found her facebook... She's still fb friends with her husband and his dad.

  • i asked her if she wanted to hangout last night she said yes. Texted her after i get done with work, she texts back "oh sorry I'm sleeping since you never confirmed earlier" .... Within one minute of my text. i tell her it is fine, another night. She calls me and within a minute she starts laughing uncontrollably and then blames it me being so funny. (ever been with a gf/bf who tickles/messes with you when you're on the phone?)

  • we were still talking on the phone when she mentions something and follows it up with something like "yea my husband knows them ....."

  • here's the kicker i go to the only gym in town that's close to where we both live and asked her if she went there the first time we hung out. She said not anymore. TODAY I'm there and from the corner of the steps inside the gym i see someone who looks just like her, has same color hair, same build..... Except she's with a guy.... Who looks exactly like the guy who is her husband on Facebook (just to clarify... I'm basing this off of marriage names not any relationship status). She didn't see me see her though.

WTF is going on? should i bring up to her seeing her at the gym? Obviously i don't care because i just wanna fuck but obviously something is off.... I want to know what