I messaged this girl to meet and play Xbox sometime. She says her name is Wen so I’m like ok so you probably got Wechat. But then she says it’s short for Wendeline which I say ‘oh I thought your name was Chinese LOL’

Apparently this was enough to set her off. I try playing it off saying yea it’s fine not a big deal but she seemed pretty offended.

This happen to any of you guys? Usually I’m pretty daring as far as racist and sexist jokes. Which works 90% of the time. Issue here seems to be doing it too early in the interaction.