Ive got 2 or 3 girls I have as plates. The question I have is one of them specifically. Weve done stuff twice.. and if I ask her schedule she is more than willing to give it to me and usually is very open to doing stuff what I suggest it. The thing is I dont see any emotional investment. Shes only had sex with 2 guys before, both short lived. She is new to dating because of her family situation before.

I cant tell if she is expecting me to chase and chase and be the one setting things up or if she is just inexperienced and doesnt know... she snap chats me first, and almost always more than I do her... but shes never called me nor set up anything herself. Yet, always answers when I call, clearly enjoys the banter, and is always willing to meet when I offer. She tried saying she didnt wanna make the whole relationship about sex and wasnt sure if she wanted to continue doing it because she wants to be sure I actually wanna get to know her and Im not gonna just leave like the last 2 guys did. I saw this as the shit test it was and told her im gonna have sex, and id prefer it be with her but im not going to get blueballed and will solve my problem my own way if needed. She fucked me that night.

Do I see her lack of calling/scheduling get togethers as her being disinterested... or do I just continue getting her schedule and setting shit up? Her schedule seems to be incredibly busy... but by legit things (works 3 jobs, spends a lot of family time together)

Stats for reference 26, 5'10, 201lbs, 8.5% bf, $80k yr salary Decent looking.