One of my plates, who I was considering maybe making an LTR down the line, admitted to me that she cheated on her ex of 7 years during the last 6 months of their relationship. She didn’t really say she regretted it or anything but I could tell it was because she felt like he was beta (unemployed, didn’t lift, sat around watching tv, etc.) I haven’t been worried about her “cheating” on me since we aren’t exclusive but sex is good and frequent.

Obviously this is a red flag but I’m curious to know how much of a red flag it is. Like I get losing attraction for someone after being in a relationship that long and then going nowhere with their life but at the same time it is still cheating. I also feel like if we never rolled the dice with a girl who had the potential to cheat that would eliminate 95%+ of girls. Maybe I’m making excuses because I admit I do like her on some level but would be curious to hear your input.