One of my plates, who I was considering maybe making an LTR down the line, admitted to me that she cheated on her ex of 7 years during the last 6 months of their relationship. She didn’t really say she regretted it or anything but I could tell it was because she felt like he was beta (unemployed, didn’t lift, sat around watching tv, etc.) I haven’t been worried about her “cheating” on me since we aren’t exclusive but sex is good and frequent.
Obviously this is a red flag but I’m curious to know how much of a red flag it is. Like I get losing attraction for someone after being in a relationship that long and then going nowhere with their life but at the same time it is still cheating. I also feel like if we never rolled the dice with a girl who had the potential to cheat that would eliminate 95%+ of girls. Maybe I’m making excuses because I admit I do like her on some level but would be curious to hear your input.
[–]thrwy7547937 points38 points39 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]thestructuralguy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Tousen7190 points91 points92 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (11 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]Tousen7115 points16 points17 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (4 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]Tousen719 points10 points11 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]Tousen711 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 33 points34 points35 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]Caleb6660 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]VaN__Darkholme3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LaGardie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rizzyfromthe916 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]DarkestShadeOfRed32 points33 points34 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]runningwily6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HurricaneHugues12 points13 points14 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]OfficerWade1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]muricanwerewolf15 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SeasonedRP4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CrackDaMarco-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20026 points7 points8 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]skizzum978 points9 points10 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20020 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]NigroqueSimillima2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]ThrowawayYAYAY20020 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PimpinAce1753 points4 points5 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]kingofclubsmorde-1 points0 points1 point (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]vullnet123-1 points0 points1 point (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]kingofclubsmorde0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]vullnet1230 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]PimpinAce175-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1Red_Pill_Brotherhood4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ElOweTea2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]oldslut2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]noserotoninforu2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sylvester_Sterone2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]furcryingoutloud2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CrackDaMarco4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]theUnBannableHulk5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]jjdekock2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]strainer1231 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Musicgoon2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Snowaey0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Onidramon1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]second-last-mohican0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]HurricaneHugues10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Krebota-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Arnoux-1 points0 points1 point (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]skuttt-1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Onidramon3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link