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Oneitis asked me out on a date

December 7, 2017
5 upvotes

I stopped texting her and stopped snapping her and she hits me up after I blow her off for a good month.. But last night she hit me up and wants to take me out for a belated birthday present she says "her treat" she offered to take me out last night but I told her I was busy all week. So then she says to let her know when I'm free next week and she'll literally do whatever I want to do and she pays. I told her I'd let her know. I've known her for 3 years but last year we finally had sex and I have had sex with her about five times since I feel like it'll probably happen again.

So I'm thinking about taking her up on it but I don't really feel like going out with her to some fancy restaurant and things just turning out shitty.

I would rather go hiking and then cook dinner after at my place, and then maybe having some drinks. Is this a bad idea? I know most people here would say to next your oneitis but I would like to convert her to a plate. Is this mission impossible because I've been emotionally invested?

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Title Oneitis asked me out on a date
Author bluepillcarl
Upvotes 5
Comments 10
Date December 7, 2017 9:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
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[–]Pluglord16 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Next post on asktrp: "My oneitis pushed me on her bed and started to suck my dick. Is it beta if I get my dick sucked without some push first?"

[–]TheRedPillMonkey7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I think she's already more of a plate than you realize. This is one of the first posts I've seen where someone claims to have slept with their oneitis numerous times, soft nexted her, and she still comes back and wants to fuck.

You soft nexted her and she came back. That means you're already okay with her not being around. She's not asking for things from you, she wants to give things to you like a free meal and pussy. I think she's a plate already or sees herself as a plate to you.

Just keep frame. Tell her what you want, let her do it, and slam her. Then soft next her again. The only issue here is you wanting to promote her to a LTR when she hasn't earned it or requested it. Treat her like any other plate until she both earns and requests LTR status. If you can't do that, hard next her.

[–]Ascended_One4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

What's there to lose?

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

just come to my place for drinks and a movie.

[–]lizzboa0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

this was the most sober response

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

"Netflix and chill"

[–]juliusstreicher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Netflix and chill"

"Bring food, liquor, Netflix and chill"

FTFY

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just have her bring the booze.

Do what you want to do is the distilled essence of the redpill.

Be a man with a plan, use the tools, get what you want.

That simple.

[–]Aaren_Augustine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

She's just trying to wrangle her beta back into an orbiting trajectory.

convert her to a plate

Your covert contracts are all known to her. Its why you orbit so well, she's a good driver.

Is this mission impossible because I've been emotionally invested?

If you have to ask...

[–]juliusstreicher0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

So then she says to let her know when I'm free next week and she'll literally do whatever I want to do and she pays.

"Paint my apartment!"

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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