Path to being an Alpha?

[deleted] · 2013-11-27T02:05:52+00:00

Yeah you're in high school. That's half the problem. Work on getting the best grades, and work on making good money in the future by getting yourself into the best colleges you can. Take AP classes like biology, chemistry, calculus, and physics. Actively participate in class. Join something like the debate team or model United Nations so you can learn to public speak, gain confidence, and meet people. Ask girls to dances, they will go with you if they see you are hardworking, bright, friendly, and attractive.

RedSunBlue · 2013-11-27T03:04:07+00:00

Eat well, lift weights, dress sharp.
Read books
Stack cash
Befriend womanizers
Approach ladies

Do all of that and you'll be fine.

tobiss · 2013-11-27T00:36:36+00:00

Read everything in the sidebar of /r/TheRedPill for starters.

You're sort of asking us to implant the entirety of a life strategy into your head in just a few sentences. (I know jujitsu?)

And dude, this is just one instance with one girl and you're in high school. By all means, start learning early, but you have plenty of time.

tobiss · 2013-11-27T04:20:33+00:00

What I would give to be back in High School (and I'm only 22)

Since you've been pretty vague about your situation let me tell you what I would tell my younger self.

First, focus on school. Make it your number one priority to get into a top 30 national university no matter what. The higher the better. This was the best thing that ever happened to me, and my only regret is not having aimed even higher.

Take all the ap classes you can. Do as well as you can. Don't compromise.

Play a sport. Get your family to get you playing something competitive and team based preferably. Do it in school or outside but do it. You NEED to learn to deal with other men in a competitive and team environment.

EAT. (I was very skinny and didnt like eating) eat as much as you can and start lifting weights now. Look up Starting Strength and start lifting and eating. If you don't do anything else do this. The flip side of this is that if you're overweight, get in shape. Bonus: read Arnold Swachenneger 's autobiography and feel inspired.

Read everything on the redpill sidebar AND read mm's book Models (trp is sort of against it but I think it's a pretty good book)

Do this. Internalize it. And you won't have to worry about getting girls.

The summer before my senior year of high school I cried and begged at a girls feet to please love me. She just looked at me rejected me and started dating someone else. I stopped giving a fuck about relationships and girls (in a pseudo red pill way although I wasn't aware yet) and almost instantly girls started flocking to me, I lost my virginity almost without trying, and eventually by the summer after I graduated even the girl that rejected me came back to me.

Make girls a hobby at this point in your life because right now they are not worth anything more.

BellatorCordis · 2013-11-27T18:39:31+00:00

If I had to boil down the best advice I could give to a high school student into one line, it would be this.

Get and stay in good physical shape.

Strength training is best. Joining a sports team might just help out with that, especially a more physical sport like wrestling or football. As an added bonus, wrestling helps with self defense.

Title	Path to being an Alpha?
Author	tobiss
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	November 26, 2013 10:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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