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Plate demands reply

May 7, 2020

I've been spinning plates for a while now and one of them wanted to meet up two days ago to which I replied I'm busy. Later that day she said she could meet up at night which she canceled on about two hours later. I didn't respond to this. Then a day later she says she would like me to say something about this. I didn't respond and in the evening she starts sending me an sms and starts spamming my Facebook that I should talk to her and that If I want to hurt her I succeeded. Basically reinforcing that I should talk to her. Even tho I have nothing to say. Whats the way to proceed from here.? I think I will fuck her one more time and then drop her since plates break anyway

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Title Plate demands reply
Author RPOpenUp
Upvotes 2
Comments 20
Date May 7, 2020 8:10 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/plate-demands-reply.661089
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/gf2hj5/plate_demands_reply/
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[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just ignore her, unless she sucks dick like a porn star.

[–]spartan_samurai0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ignore her as she sounds like too much drama.

Set up some rules that you can't talk to her all the time and you got other things to do as well. If she is ok with this then fine otherwise she can leave. Doing this will save you from unncessary arguments/drama with her in future and will give you time to look for better plates.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you want to spin her? Or do you want to find a better one?

She sounds fucking crazy imo.

[–]IXseed0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Plate DEMANDS reply

How the fuck a bitch demand anything? And you're wondering if you should keep fucking with her?

[–][deleted]  (14 children) | Copy Link


[–]RPOpenUp[S] 2 points3 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

This sounds beta honestly. So basically you're saying I should do a to prevent a girl from doing b. Isn't this acting in her frame. Also. She canceled it herself why would I say okay, she knew I was busy. Im not ignoring her to be cruel, I don't want to reward her entitled behaviour

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[–]RPOpenUp[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

You are right in a part. If I opted to meet and she would refuse, without me responding it'd seem butt hurt. But that's not the case here. She opted to meet, me saying no and then radio silence doesn't mean I'm butt hurt, it simply means I don't have time /am not interested atm

[–]KillYourInnerLoser0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

You don't have time to write "Ok"?

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Why.. Why would I confirm the fact that she canceled her own proposal

[–]TheStoicTao3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

No need. You did good.

Seems like she got butthurt when you couldn't meet up and therefore suggested meeting at night time, just to reject you two hours later. Hoping that you would break frame.

Let her play her silly games. Don't engage!

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, this sounds right. I rejected her which made her butthurt. Then she starts to make drama when nothings up just to get attention. Thanks sir

[–]Nighthawk_Black_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If one of your friends cancelled plans that he made would you text him back?

[–]Jani11571 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

What's happened has happened already. Think about the result you have right now, and decided if this worse than if you responded. In this case "K" would have been more than enough, girls know exactly how dismissive K is.

I also believe you've lost to a certain degree when you worry about acting in her frame. As a man, an individual, you make decisions based on what's best for you.

[–]Nighthawk_Black_-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Texting back "K" is beta and passive aggressive

[–]RPOpenUp[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link


[–]Nighthawk_Black_-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's something a girl would text like when they say nothing is bothering them even though something is

[–]Farseer150221-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Who cares what she says. Just ignore

[–]KillYourInnerLoser-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's your life - stress about "beta" vs "alpha" all you want, but ignoring girls for 2 days is going to add drama to your life. My mission has always been to avoid drama - I don't give a shit whether an action is "beta". If you don't care about avoiding drama to the level I do, then go for it (again, it's your life - it's not up to me to tell you what to do).

[–]abortion6969-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Dude, you gotta hold it down. She's one degree away from talking to you like a bitch

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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