Taking a break from spinning plates as I’m (24) trying to focus on my mission, finances and moving out. But this sexy chick (19) at the gym who lives in my neighborhood did everything she could to get me to hit her up so I did.

My frame so far (over a month) has been pretty much impeccable, as she thinks I have a ton of bitches, thinks she’s a side hoe, and does whatever I want. (She says she doesn’t listen to me but actions over words)

So the night before the condom broke and next day we went to get a plan b pill. She’s making jokes like “where is it because obviously you’ve done this a lot”

So she takes the pill, and I start driving her home. As I’m pulling up to her house, my dad is walking my dog right in front of it so I’m like shit and just keep going.

Obviously he saw me but he has no idea what I was doing on that side of the neighborhood and I never tell my parents about women.

My parents think any sort of fling with a girl means relationship and I don’t trust them with anything involving my goals, work or relationships

Then I didn’t want to come back to the house to wait till my dad goes to sleep so I was laughing saying I might just chill in my car for an hour and she said “don’t do it alone I’ll stay with you”

So I drove to a secluded area, initiated started rubbing her pussy and hooking up and told her to get in the back. She said she “im not fucking you in your car I’m too classy for that” so I was like “too classy huh? Haha alright whatever you say” then started driving back.

She’s grunts “oh” and is like “ugh you’re so confusing” then I dropped her off gave her a little kiss and smacked her ass as she was getting out. She immediately Venmo’s me $ for the pill (maybe feeling guilty for not fucking) but I sent it back saying “no (her name)”

I take partial ownership as I wasn’t nearly as sexual as usual and if I started actually fingering her she prob would have fucked as I didn’t warm her up enough but I still didn’t like her “too classy” response.

Weird because I grab her ass and tits in public (discreetly) and she has been a “no resistance slut” thus far

She’s going away one day this weekend when we usually chill so I feel like a little pull back/soft next seems like a Good idea as i want to set the frame that I don’t have time for “sexually disinterested” women as she already thinks she’s a side hoe.

TL:DR: Chick thinks I’m a player and she’s a side hoe. I tried to intiate in the car but says she’s too classy for car sex. Soft next?