Plate Jealousy

blacwidonsfw · 2016-07-20T06:40:47+00:00

Yes I would care, however; not really due to jealousy.

Let me explain: women value men for what they offer not not only purely physically. but also their status/confidence/connections/wealth etc. Those traits have potential to translate into sexual attaction, while have virtually no chance to affect a man's attraction in a woman.

Keeping in mind the above, the most sexually advantageous moves to make for a women in her prime, is to find the best man she can get and lock him down. If I was a hot woman, I would definitely date around a little, but only with the highest quality guys I could get, with the primary goal of finding a permanent mate. The reason being is as women age, even just a few years, their ability to get a "perfect guy" plummets, as those guys only go after hot youthful girls.

This is in stark contrast to men, who get better over time.

Given this info , a girl who is consistently fucking multiple guys over long periods of time with no effort to lock one down, is acting against her sexual strategy and livelihood. This means she is either too stupid to realize it, is damaged in some other way, or is frankly not really into you.

So, should you care if a girl is seeing multiple people on the side? Yes, but only in so far as to tell yourself that she can only ever be a plate because she has shown you she does not deserve your jealousy and never will.

JamesSkepp · 2016-07-20T07:00:57+00:00

do you ever care if a plate is seeing/doing another guy?

No.

By definition a plate is someone you "see" for sex only. If you can have multiple plates, so can she, that's the deal between you.

[deleted] · 2016-07-20T13:27:14+00:00

Don't care. Plates are for fucking. I've had plates pledge their commitment to me, and I've lost plates due to not giving it.

Again, don't care. Bitches come about a dime a dozen.

rhettdu · 2016-07-20T15:22:54+00:00

Nope. Not interested. Prefer to not know.

I always use protection, even if she's on the pill

brooklynisburnin · 2016-07-20T19:43:06+00:00

do you ever care if a plate is seeing/doing another guy? Or is it irrelevant to you?

Irrelevant, it would only bother me if, and it happened to me already, she were to start messing with my time without giving up sex while not denying sex to her other plates/activities, fuck that, sucks and makes my blood boil just thinking about it again.

If a plate tries to push for commitment/serious relationship with you over another male, what do you make of that?

Same as using sex as a leverage against me, unacceptable, that's basic bitch level of manipulation, she should know that there's only one way, if any, for me to consider an LTR, and that's to be nice and play by the book.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-07-20T14:57:37+00:00

I don't care, emotionally, but I do require fidelity from my plates. They're happier that way, with a lower n-count, no thousand cock stare, they don't get fucked in the head over some other guy and they don't bring me home the STD that keeps on giving.

That said, do what (and who) you want.

Title	Plate Jealousy
Author	Gawernator
Upvotes	10
Comments	11
Date	July 20, 2016 2:51 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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