had a plate flake on me about a week ago, conversation here

Background: I met this girl a few weeks ago at her job. Next day lay. We've fucked a handful of times and she flaked about a week ago, saying some shit about being a sex toy. She just hit me up today, I did logistics, and she asked me to take her on a proper date. So far, we've spent 80% of our time together fucking, and 20% talking in my apartment on the way to sex.

I haven't had this kind of turbulence/comfort testing so early with a plate before and typically don't go on many, if any, dates with girls who aren't on a potential gf path (she is definitely not). I will say that I've done a date or two with most of my plates that have lasted months rather than weeks and I'm wondering if she has a shorter fuse on this stuff because of how strictly sexual our time has been.

I can see how she wants her fun time out together, but I don't have interest in doing that stuff with her. Based on the sex and general vibe, I think her attraction to me is retained and we can keep it strictly sexual, but I also think she wants to validate spending time together with more than just small talk and pound town at my apartment.

I do have some concern that she might try some ASD on our upcoming meetup, too. She's also getting a tattoo on her ass today and I think she might use it as an excuse to not have sex this weekend

How do I resolve her punking out last week? This girl did straight up "meh" me. Do I need to swallow my pride, take her on a date, and escalate until I'm making her ass bleed? Orrrrr...are there better alternatives? Criticisms of text game welcome, but keep on topic with the questions, too.