So I've been seeing this woman/plate from a major university near me, she's super into me and I kind of just enjoy the company/sex, not much more than that.

A few times she has wanted to go to a bar, super insistent on bringing me. Last weekend I hung out with her and a group of friends and ended up at a pizza joint that has a huge bar scene, didn't stay long since it was so packed and she could tell I was bored AF.

I've always thought the point of bars and clubs is to drink/dance/pickup women. Not really much more than that. 90% of the time I netflix and chill this girl and bang all the time. She wants it more than me, which is also almost another issue. Last night I just didn't want to do her, even though she was trying to get the D. Not sure if physically tired or oneitis issue since it was another plate's birthday.

Is there any point of going to a bar with plates? Maybe some social thing, she probably wants me to be her BF, parade around in front of girls idk