Went to a concert 2 years ago met this girl, we ended up going home together and hooking up “mind you we didn’t know each other’s names until after” we were both wasted I didn’t use s condom and probably didn’t pull out, “I know a dipshit mistake” only talked to her a few times after but just stopped talking period no hard feelings no big deal world kept turning. Turns out she actually cheated on her fiancé with me at the time. I didn’t know. But Exactly 9 months later from the time we hooked up she has a kid.. “we’re friends on Snapchat”. I think ah she probably does that a lot could be anyone’s.
Like I said it’s been a year or 2 and I see pictures of this kid & she looks JUST LIKE ME.. same head, eyes, hair, facial structure, smile. Especially when I was a baby we could be twins. The “dad” of this kid looks nothing like her. The girl also has same hair color eye color as me and maybe a similar facial structure. All she has never contacted me once in 2 years, not even a hey how are you. Her posts on snap always seem really positive and happy. Nothing that hates on men or anything like that or “strong independent woman” BS.
I know anything can happen it’s just as much a low chance of being my kid as much as it is a high chance & the only way to tell would be a paternity test. But what if some day she hits me up trying to tell me I have a kid? And she wants me to take the test and pay her child support. What would I do? After all this time would I have to? She knows nothing about me or my whereabouts except my Snapchat. I’ve never really thought about it much until an hour ago I was on Snapchat and saw a picture of her kid and it just made me think wow that could be mine. If it truly was mine I would want to be apart of her life but at the same time it’d be better for everyone if it wasn’t. Idk this just has me thinking a lot. of any of you have any experience or advice. I’d appreciate it.
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