Potential LTR being more distant, but said she still wants to be casual (sex). Did I fail shit tests or comfort tests?

January 12, 2018
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To start, i'd say we're similar smv. Maybe mine is higher if I had to choose. I can identify shit tests but I'm never entirely sure how to handle them, so my go to response is ignoring them and continuing on with the conversation. Or acknowledging with indifference. She was super into me in the beginning, then after being a bit more distant she said "i wanna focus on my career and not ready for a relationship blablabla"

So i said. "So you want to stop seeing eachother?"

She says no, and 3 times in the same message said she still wants to see me but she's really busy so just wants to keep it casual. The thing is, she still wants to see me. But is more nonchalant about it.

At first I thought I failed a bunch of shit tests. But after thinking about it im starting to wonder if i failed comfort tests, and she closed off emotionally. Especially because she still wants to see me and we've hung out a couple of times since.

I think she was trying to draw insecurity out of me at one point talking about one of her guy friends but i responded completely casual about it and didn't show any jealousy.

Do you guys think i failed shit tests or comfort tests?

Thanks in advance.

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Title Potential LTR being more distant, but said she still wants to be casual (sex). Did I fail shit tests or comfort tests?
Author ioncehadsexinapool
Upvotes 4
Comments 13
Date January 12, 2018 10:07 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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