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Question about early 20s and a long-term investment in yourself (and your SMV)

January 26, 2018

I'm 20 and I don't get lays easily. on average, a girl a month - but it's not certain. so it's not up to me. I feel like I'm working on all aspects of myself and after a long period of denying, tonight I accepted the fact that simply my SMV isn't high enough - I've been increasing my numbers recently and got just rejections.

Thought I'm somewhere between 7 and 9 but right now I have no idea where I stand. Maybe the problem is that I'm aiming too high (i.e. girls who are too high on the SMP), maybe it's also because I'm part of one of the biggest cities in the Western civilization and am living in the centre (which means that I'm competing for real with top SMV men) but anyways I will find out that after I will decline my standards in order to have sex and have my needs met.

Question: is it normal to keep my head down in my twenties in order to have my wealth and status (along with game experience, wisdom etc.) levels rising for a later point in life or am I just missing something? Seems like everyone who's in their 20s in college here on TRP are fucking like crazy and it makes me wonder if I'm truly missing something.

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Title Question about early 20s and a long-term investment in yourself (and your SMV)
Author Eclectiqque
Upvotes 1
Comments 9
Date January 26, 2018 9:51 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/question-about-early-20s-and-a-long-term.122774
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7t7zlq/question_about_early_20s_and_a_longterm/

[–]fnordsnord 1 points1 points [recovered] | Copy Link

You're averaging one fuck-close a month?


Dude, the average man has six in a LIFETIME. In one year, you're slaying more poon that two normal men do in a LIFETIME.


If you want more, fine. Go for it. But the guys who go home with a different girl every night, or even every weekend are either the top 10% of SMV men or have VERY low standards.

[–]CutLiver0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This. One a month is pretty damn good if they're decent looking, OP.

[–]Eclectiqque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

probably impostor syndrome. thank you

[–]TehJimmyy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Mfw when never slaying , and OP is sad about 1/month.

[–]moontripper12460 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Getting pussy is great man, but as I’m growing into more of an adult I’m realizing being able to take care of yourself financially just feels awesome in a different way.

It’s up to you, but if you feel bad for acting in such a way that you can take care of yourself in the future.......you should feel good about that.

Once your able to, y’know, LIVE you can take a year or two and seriously dive into game everyday.

In the end pussy can’t replace money. And we kind of need money. Took me a long time to accept that.

(That being said, you absolutely have 1 hour a day to approach somewhere and at least 1 night a week to go out consistently.)

[–]ShavedApel0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If you get a new one every month and retain half of them.

In 2 years you could have at least a dozen girls every month.

That is far from missing out, you must not understand what is normal unless your trolling.

[–]Eclectiqque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

not trolling. probably impostor syndrome. thanks.

[–]moontripper12460 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

.....apparently everyone thinks your fine, oh well.

What do you mean by keeping your head down? what specifically are you referring to

[–]Eclectiqque[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

by that i mean that i will spend minimal time working on game or initiating with women so that I will spend more time into developing my career (and implicitly my SMV)

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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