I'm sure everyone has experienced this... You have a few plates, and eventually one (or more) of them want to know what you're doing when they're not around.

I've tried various different approaches to deal with this, but no one method seems to work better than any other. I've tried ignoring it, being ridiculous, telling then I'm with another woman, and more...

It all just seems to light a fire under their ass to start shit-testing more, and ultimately end the relationship on the grounds that I'm not committing to them.

Have any of you found a good way to deal with probing questions like this? Or is it just a fact of life when it comes to spinning plates?

Thanks