I began swallowing TRP in April and have seen a lot of fruit in my life from it. I've taken greater chances, I've been more successful with women, I've gotten promotions, earned self- respect, cut people out of my life after a lot of hard decisions, am going back to university and have been seriously weight lifting for 10 weeks now. I've read the sidebar and a few TRP books (No More Mr Nice Guy, Models & The Rational Male)

Now the question I have on here is this, concerning this post, a man begins to call out his perspective on why TRP is toxic. He actually has some interesting well-formed arguments. I don't agree with him at this point, but I wanted to see his opposing views.

If you're a man and you can't test what you believe, those values are built on a poor foundation.

So here's my question:

He says TRP is bad because of this plentiful list links where TRP men were unhappy with their marriages and got out. This is a pretty significant portion of his post, but he doesn't say why it's bad.

I've heard it said before by Louis CK that nobody who is in a happy marriage gets divorced.

If these marriages were so great, why did these men begin to start implementing TRP tactics? Or searching online for TRP help?

In Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy, he mentions often that his counseling in men to get out of their push over nice guy mentality resulted in either healthier marriages or dissolving them entirely.

My question concerning anti TRP posts is that if these marriages failed, the man had enough and left, or he began to stand up for himself for the first time and the women refused to take it, is that really a bad thing? Isn't that something that should be celebrated? If no happy, functional marriage ever ends in divorce then why are people up and arms over it? I realize people that are upset are probably White Knights but I just don't understand why* they are upset.

Thoughts, gentlemen?