Quick tips (or good read) on preventing a plate turning into gf

Been spinning some plates for a while now and went through the sidebar twice but can't really find a small scheme on how to avoid a plate turning into a gf and more importantly so how to imply this to her?

Ok, I can offer some insight here.

First of all, do not engage in ANY boyfriend or provider behaviours, these trigger expectations and entitlement in women.

For example:

Setting up nice dates, buying presents, listening to her talk crap, offering emotional support, offering financial support, anything that could be seen as romantic.

What you DO do..... is have fun with her and fuck her.

Accept this will lose you some women, and be ok with that. You'll lose the ones looking for a boyfriend, and keep the ones looking for fun. This isn't easy, but it can be done.

Concretely: Do not commit. See other women, and make no secret that you do. Don't overdo it, but be sometimes unavailable and if she asks says "I'm seeing Susan". You don't need to say you're fucking Susan, but certainly don't deny it.

Additionally: leave gaps after seeing her before agreeing to the next meeting. Eg set up a meeting on Wednesday for Saturday. See her Saturday but DO NOT AGREE TO THE NEXT DATE. If pushed say "I'm busy for a few days". Do not agree to call again, do not agree to see her again, do not put any dates on when you'll be in touch. The idea is that you feel like a special occasional treat rather than something she can count on.

If your schedules mean that you end up seeing each other for a good session every Saturday.... keep mixing it up. Be unpredictable. This is more attractive, more exciting, and if you do it right it won't feel like a bf/gf thing.

I'm honestly a bit scared they will take it wrong when I say I'm not looking for a gf and get me too'd.

Saying this is fine.

The problem is that you have to say it AND act like it. When I started this I'd say "I'm not looking for a gf" and expect that to be understood. 6 months later and she's saying things like "I know you said you're not looking for a gf, but now that you've found one..." or "I'm not a girlfriend, but I want us to be exclusive".

Almost nothing you say is concrete here. "I don't want exclusive" turns into "Ok, non-exclusive gf-bf leading to marriage".

It's why it is essential that she knows that you're screwing other women. You have to actually act like this, all the time. The no-contact gaps, slow responses to texts (and ignore some!). All convey to her that this is not a bf-gf thing.

This avoids misunderstandings and really, the metoo thing is so rare you'll be fine SO LONG AS YOU DONT STICK YOUR DICK IN TEH CRAZY. Girls who manipulate what you say, try overly to frame things as gf-bf, ones who deliberately misunderstand, ones who go on about exclusivity as if it's their god given right: quietly and nicely move on from these.

And fundamentally, make sure you really are seeing multiple girls at once. If you are only seeing one, you'll fuck this up. You'll think "it's ok to just see this one girl, because she gets it". She doesn't. She's pretending to. You have to be seeing multiple women and always getting more.