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August 2, 2016

Still learning but seems she didn't show any interest in me at all, so probably just wants attention?

Any input appreciated.

Just trying to have some normal conversations and get to know them.



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Title Rate this convo
Author casemodsalt
Upvotes 0
Comments 20
Date August 2, 2016 9:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit /r/askTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/rate-this-convo.109196
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4vrmxk/rate_this_convo/

[–]SirWazzaBrookBanks4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

Text for logistics, not to make small talk - it helps weed out those who are actually interested in you, and those who, as you've identified here, just want someone to give them attention.

[–]casemodsalt[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Ok how do I do what you said?

[–]SirWazzaBrookBanks5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You're doing the same thing a friend of mine does - he texts women, or has Facebook conversations with them, in the hopes that he can learn about them, they can learn about him and by doing so a mutual attraction will rise.

Sure, some people might be able to pull this off. But the best thing to use text communication for is to arrange to meet, arrange to hang out etc.

This is because it's easier to gauge interest, and to be interesting in person.

To put it into practice, try and have your conversations not be about her day, or your day etc., instead direct the conversation towards catching up in person.

[–]mabden2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Text her when you want to meet up. Text to arrange logistics of meet up.

If she starts any kind of convo, other than meeting up, keep it short and simple.

"Ok, cool, look I have x to do, will see you x. bye."

You do not start any type of convo, other than to meet up. The idea of the meetup is to gage interest, i,e, will she actually commit to and show up. You want to have one on one face time, that is the only way you are going to build attraction/comfort.

[–]Hunts_Alone 3 points3 points [recovered] | Copy Link

You asked four questions. She asked none. That's a good indicator of how you did. This conversation doesn't spark anything. It's bland. She probably gets messages exactly like yours from 10 other guys a day. Your conversations must be man-to-woman. Yours is not. There's no flirting, no wit, no fun, just small talk. Spice up your conversation. Stand out from all the other chumps trying to hit her up.

[–]casemodsalt[S] 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

Wouldn't she have asked some if she was the least bit interested? Seems like I am doing all the work, as usual, which is why I'm about to delete tinder from my phone.

[–]Hunts_Alone 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy Link

It's less about how many question marks she send you, more about her showing interest in you. Her asking question displays that she's interested. Judging from her responses, she's not that interested. You definitely should not be doing all the work. You, as a male, will have to start the conversation, but she should pull her own weight after that if she's interested. What does your SMV look like? Are you lifting? Have you read the Sidebar?

[–]casemodsalt[S] 2 points3 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Ugh, not sure. I don't lift. Skinny fat I guess. Decent face. Certainly pulled way hotter than her. I was actually lowering my standards talking to her.

[–]Hunts_Alone 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy Link

I'll spare you the rant on why you should lift, as you can read that on just about every other thread here(But seriously, start lifting). I'd suggest you watch some pickup stuff on text game. The RSD guys on YouTube have some good stuff on that. Don't delete Tinder. Learn about text game and then practice it on these Tinder chicks, even if it never leads anywhere.

[–]casemodsalt[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I know, I'm getting fat and just about the point where I will do something about it (just a beer belly mostly)

I'm 30 and rather not play games. Just want someone who acts their age and isn't looking for a personal comedian

[–]Hunts_Alone 2 points2 points [recovered] | Copy Link

Have you read The Rational Male? I think that might really help with all of this. Women will never act their age. Expect childlike behavior because that's all you're ever going to get.

[–]casemodsalt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Literally no women out there will act like an adult?

[–]RedSkeller1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

You might find varying levels of maturity but at the end of the day AWALT holds true. Read 'the most responsible teenager in the house' (search bar). As for 'playing games' or 'playing it straight' - everything in life is a game and you have to play it, so drop the mentality you are being manipulate and rock the shit out of that game. You need to go into monk mode, you can keep tinder to work on your text game, but it comes off needy from an outsider. You had her hooked early and gradually she became disinterested. You are the prize and can control the conversation.

[–]BusterVadge2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Boring. That's how I rate it. Polarize early, flirt right away. No attraction, no response. If she responds to flirting right away she's interested, and that's where you STOP talking. Set up a date at that point.

You can only talk yourself OUT of attraction. Don't do that.

[–]brooklynisburnin2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There's nothing to rate there, no intent, no flirting, no teasing, no push/pull, no logistics...Hell even you gave her details about you without being asked.

Stick to text for logistics, you don't have the experience to game via text yet.

[–]casemodsalt[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

But the last girl I fucked from tinder wanted to get comfort via text first before we met up

[–]brooklynisburnin0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I fail to see comfort being made with that convo.

[–]DoctorNation1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link


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[–]AlphaManliness1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Never say "haha"

Can you imagine your dick saying haha?

Haha is something girls do after an interesting conversation with you, as they 'open up' to you.

Also, can you imagine your dick trying to have a normal convo with a girl ? No, because small talk and validation are not something a dick can provide.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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