I was reading an article on overcoming One Itis and something in the comments stood out to me:

"I don't really think one-itis can truly be stopped until you genuinely feel a deep source of internal validation and abundance mentality. This goes beyond fucking N number of women, because we know celebrity guys who have gotten 1000s of lays still get massive oneitis for lower SMV bitches. Oneitis is a function of low self esteem and needing something external to feel fulfilled. It's obsession and fixation, but more than that, it's the ability to construct a "red pill" fantasy - and then become dependent upon the maintenance of that fantasy."

What exactly is the "Red Pilled Fantasy" being described here? I'm figuring something along the lines of you can't achieve blue pill ideals with red pill truths or the fact that once you start becoming red pill you can let your ego get in the way and start believing you can get any girl with good game or the such.

Any thoughts? My question is if that is the fantasy than what is the reality of a truly red pilled man?