I’ve been here 5 years but can’t get past this fundamental problem.

I have good self esteem regarding everything in my life except women. I have mental impotence as a result. Have been working on it for years. Just wasted a year talking to a blue pill therapist who’s probably just made the problem worse honestly.

I lift, got friends, a job, hobbies, boundaries, multiple areas of interest and things I excel at. Finally have some women interested in me which I struggle to take seriously/believe.

Would appreciate any advice.