Why does this happen? I meet lots of women. I say to myself I love attractive women but I treat them all equally. That’s a lie. When it comes to women who I find to really, really my type I have them placed on a pedestal. For example. I started challenging myself to approach women who I get the nagging, contemptuous feeling that I’m not good enough for them. I say, bring it on. I tell these women I think they are beautiful and if I don’t say hello I would be beating myself over the head later. But when she starts to reciprocate, smile and follows my lead I get cold feet. I stop doing what works and let the women take the lead because I’ve placed her on pedestal I can no longer relate to her and no longer take the lead.

I have a few women who I have a sexual relationship with that I’m not really all that attracted too. So, I don’t have this problem with those women. Am I missing something?