So here is the situation and context:

  • we were FWB for almost 2 years, I wasn’t exclusive.
  • she pushed for relationship multiple times to which I said no (was close to LTRing her a few times but that wasn’t what I really wanted)
  • she told me she loves me a few times to which I said I know etc, that I liker her (didn’t say i love her)
  • around autumn I told her that we need to stop this whole thing (she pissed me off about something). We had a break for a month after which she reached out. However our communication started breaking down and by NYE it was broken. Once I noticed that she stopped reciprocating as much I withdrew my attention.
  • she started seeing a guy around that time, who she has known for 7 years (I assume old friend). And she has now moved in with him.

Now: - we don’t talk much anymore. But she reached out last week with some bs question about my insta bio and then asked if we could still be friends (saying that what we had was good). Also in that chat said things like “you are attractive” and asked about my dating life.

I basically told her that “we can be friends, but you know we still attracted to each other. So if you are ok with that it’s fine”

I never had a girl reaching out like this asking to be friends after I technically did the break up. What’s that about ?