Should I give a shit if a plate is fucking other guys, sending nudes to other guys?

lolomotif12 · 2021-06-20T13:49:51+00:00

It's a plate and you shouldn't care, just don't get oneitis for the bitch and make sure you wear a condom. However she is a very low quality plate so me personally I wouldn't keep her in my rotation and spin better ones.

TryQuality · 2021-06-20T14:19:12+00:00

No. She's a plate.

DullIntroduction · 2021-06-20T14:24:46+00:00

slrml617 · 2021-06-20T14:50:22+00:00

Yes they are. No you shouldn't care. You should be fucking other girls.

kclanton80 · 2021-06-20T15:55:58+00:00

That's totally your decision how you feel. It's not up to us to decide.

ObjectiveDay8 · 2021-06-20T14:10:02+00:00

Depends on what your tolerance for STD risk is or whether you are turned off by the fact that you are banging a hoe. Does she fuck nasty ass ghetto dudes? Do you bang her raw? In light of what you said, you should definitely not hit it raw. Just do you.

GrandmasterHurricane · 2021-06-20T17:55:56+00:00

She's not your gf. It's just some girl you're fucking. Who cares?

Curious_Dog_95 · 2021-06-20T18:27:20+00:00

Of course, plates are fucking other guys! Seems like you are jealous... Are you?

theworldaintshit · 2021-06-20T15:51:12+00:00

Well, you obviously do care and that's a good thing. I would care.

Guys will tell you that makes you a beta. haha.

It's not natural to be sharing a woman with some other dude, regardless of what your status is with her. It's not in line with the reason of our existence. Thus, it will continue to cause you strife.

officerfriendlyrick7 · 2021-06-20T15:47:22+00:00

Can you please define what you mean by "plate"?

Also, how many "plates" do you have?

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-06-20T15:20:02+00:00

PatternEast7185 · 2021-06-20T19:38:49+00:00

shes a plate not ur gf

Intrepid_Artist · 2021-06-20T19:42:24+00:00

Move on, always be in relations where you have more power

drkinferno72 · 2021-06-20T19:55:35+00:00

wrap it up

Yashugan00 · 2021-06-21T10:31:51+00:00

yes, but if she's letting you know then there's one of two reasons:

she wants you to be jealous and tell her to stop. Claim her. Turn here towards relationship.
she's toying with you because she's a cat. And cats play with their prey because they get bored.

Here's the dark side version of this:

- call her names, treat her badly. that's what a high sexuality, low confidence girl craves (hey I didn't make this universe, don't blame me).

drdrublahblah · 2021-09-21T00:10:48+00:00

need advice.
My small business does pretty well so I have accumulated some good signs of wealth (expensive apartment, couple Rolex watches, expensive clothes, ultra healthy and organic kitchen, soon to buy a tesla etc). I'm also still in undergrad college at a relatively mediocre school with a fairly prestigious program for my field of study ie I will probably earn at least 2-3x more than the vast majority of other graduates from my uni.
During covid I went up from 140lbs to 180lbs (all fat not gains). This was mainly attributed to just no longer being active walking to class (ie 1 month into school I've lost 10lbs of fat from eating healthy/walking to and from school). Also during Covid my social/dating skills tanked; I lived by myself and had very limited contact with other people let alone girls for almost 2 years. this is why I lost frame so easily.
i met a really pretty girl before covid started (and before I gained weight), had a fling a while back which ended abruptly with no explanation from her.. i was preoccupied w/ performing well in school to get admitted to a high ranked program/running my small biz; I didn't have time to react but I was def upset about it. she ended up taking a year off from school and then pandemic happened. First week of school felt like we were just picking up from where we left off. she came over and it was great. she came over twice that week; we banged etc etc.
but I forgot about her shit tests of like not hitting me up (back then I would leave her on read a lot bc I was legitimately busy; this semester outside of securing an internship my time is rather laid back).
I end up losing every single ounce of frame and nosedived badly with this girl. I am aware might have a major case of oneitis but I damn near want to marry this one. she is blonde w the blue eyes, perfect model-like body and face, smart and driven. How the fuck do i recover?
mistake 1: we're snapchatting, she says she's going to hang w me this weekend. next snap she says she's sick, then the next one was of her getting ready to go out. I got pissed: demand my hoodie back and say im not into girls that are still obsessed w going out and partying (ie if sick be mature enough to stay in and recover etc etc).
she becomes gradually more distant; I invite her to go ride jetskis. Initially agrees, then right before go time falls back and says prolly not best idea given how I got pissed the other day blah blah blah. i send her roses which she thanks me for.
a week passes... no contact.
mistake 2: hit her w some way too extravagant date options (weekend trip to cali/chicago/miami/new york). no answer.
a few more days pass:
I hit her up asking to get my hoodie back. We meet, she hands it to me and just says bye. nothing else.
I text her asking like what I did to mess up so badly etc etc; no answer and I double text just calling her fake for not telling me etc etc.
I acted like a needy insecure beta bitch boy instead of a man. she'll still watch my snapchat stories... does that mean there's a chance to get her back still? despite the instant panty drier actions i took, im a firm believer that if you were able to smash once you can smash again. If i still smashed her on multiple dif nights even after she saw my weight gain, I can certainly smash again after i lose the weight no?
truth be told im not 21 in undergrad; im about to be 26 and i graduate next year at 27. and im going into a career where ill be getting paid well but working 100hours+ a week for at least until im 30. I'm afraid i'll never get the chance to spend my monies and just get less and less fit overtime. I am afraid to end up alone and figure now in college would be my best opportunity to find a life partner that would stick around while I work these insane hours.
have been trying out getting back into the whole 'spinning plates' shit but a) this college town seems to be anti hookup culture aka terrible rates of success on dating apps like tinder b) i barely ever go to bars/have time for them and am c) feel like it would be inappropriate to approach a girl inbetween classes when both she and I are in a rush to get to next one or at library where we are both trying to study.
pls help.

Title	Should I give a shit if a plate is fucking other guys, sending nudes to other guys?
Author	SimpleLargeSheep
Upvotes	9
Comments	53
Date	June 20, 2021 1:46 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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