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Should I have told him?

August 28, 2018
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Chick I was with while blue pilled cheated on me with some guy. She begs me to take her back, and I stupidly do. Lasts another 5 months, and, 4 months ago, I leave her for disrespecting me, and find the red pill. She gets into a relationship with the guy she cheated on me with. Yesterday she comes back into communication, calling him a whiny bitch, telling me she can't stop thinking about me, loves me, blah blah. Even asks me to ditch my children and run away with her to move two hours away from my friends and family. I laughed and refused of course, and she fucking loses her mind on me, starts with the insults not just at me, but at MY CHILDREN, too. Told her I was going to send her bf the screenshots of the conversation if she mentioned my children again, suddenly she calmed down and just kept badgering me about if I was going to tell him or not. Wasn't going to, was just going to block her everywhere, until she sent one more insult my way. In a moment of rage, I found the guy on facebook, filled him in on it all, and sent him the screenshots.

Should I have told him?

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Title Should I have told him?
Author LunarTears0
Upvotes 18
Comments 23
Date August 28, 2018 10:49 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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[–]Endorsed ContributorKeffirLime28 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

This woman is out of your life, she shouldn't be able to shake your frame of mind. Even a woman in your life with leverage shouldn't be able to do that.

Wish her all the success with her beta whiny little bitch bf and move on with your life.

[–]LunarTears0 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

I've been putting my new found RP knowledge to test with the women I've been seeing last few months and it's been working wonders. But I was with her for two years and she was a part of my kids' life, so she had a big connection to me. I did not think she'd be able to shake my frame and rile me up so easily.

Well, it's too late to take it back, so not much to do there. And no plans of an LTR in my future, so can't really put this experience to use again. Guess it kind of made me look like a whiny bitch myself, now that I've calmed a bit.

[–]omega_dawg931 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

don't overestimate the affect she's had in your kids' lives.

kids get over people quickly... they live in a different world.

why would you want your kids to remember her anyway?

[–]__uwotm8__ 1 points [recovered]  (8 children) | Copy Link

I’ve done something similar, when I found out a girl I have been seeing exclusively for a couple of weeks was also sleeping with another guy and was fucking LOADS of guys when we weren’t exclusive. After kicking her out I found him on Facebook, he seemed like a nice guy so I let him know she sleeps around and he should use protection. He thanked me and the next day she blocked me on everything, so I assume he told her.

Do I regret it? No. But I will admit it was a pointless, emotional response. This was not my problem.

[–]LunarTears0 1 points [recovered]  (3 children) | Copy Link

"Revenge" is certainly one way of seeing it. On the other hand... you did save a man from being tricked and possibly catching something. That's also a good way to look at it, isn't it? I can't decide.

Should we look out for our fellow man, rather than let women run rampant?

[–]__uwotm8__ 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy Link

“The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.”

[–]LunarTears0 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the reminder. You're right.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't make it about the other guy. Make it about yourself. Will you feel better if you told him? I bet you will. The need for revenge is part of human nature, otherwise you would not have the need for it nor ask about it.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Patrolling thots is a sacred duty.

[–]kankouillotte0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

You did the right thing.sybe she will learn a valuable lesson from this, or maybe she won't, either way you tried to make the world a better place, even if it was just to spite her

[–]hamagiclamp5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe he will wake up, also don't let her back in no matter what.

[–]RedLegendx8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, that’s his problem to deal with now, non of your business.

[–]FlyingSexistPig2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I would have.

Maybe you can help another man find the red pill.

[–]Bedtimeshine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I vote for: Yes, do it!

[–]izual191 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I appreciated being told my girl was a cheating whore.

[–]It_just_got_Worse0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Some dudes just don't get this, and they tend to be the ones that are still plugged in especially if it's one of your friends. You think if you told them his girl is cheating on them it would set off a lightbulb in their head but instead they get mad at you for it. Now that I know this I would be thankful if someone were to tell me so I could stop wasting my time.

[–]SeekingTheWay0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

If she is important enough in your life that you MUST have an opinion on her, then decide what that opinion is and then act on it.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Is it better to crush your opponent's throat in a fight or to just keep your foot on their larynx, both of you damn well knowing that you could destroy the other person if you want to?

We can't decide that for you, it depends on what type of man you are.

[–]mrHappyPotatoe0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I like when crazy bitches like her go frenzy and cant get off the wheel anymore. Just looking them go.

Why bothering with the threats?

Sip your whiskey and smoke a cigar. Calm your balls.

[–]ifeelfuckingterrible0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolutely not because you had nothing to gain from doing that, and all you get is a pissed off bitch that (presumably) knows where you live.

[–]bulletzdz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

This women has already shown inexcusable past behavior. She cheats and disrespects the men she's been with. You should not have. Many guys will say morally it is the right thing to do, but strategically it is a bad move.

Everything you do in life, you should ask if it will benefit you, and how will it benefit you.

What's the best case senario to come out of her telling him? Will he appreciate the information so much that he will somehow give you access to more money or women? Highly unlikely.

However, by you telling him. You open the doors for your ex to do all types of horrid shit. Like accusing you false rape etc.

Shouldn't have told him. You should cut all contact and never speak to her again. She got under your skin with her insults. Be a bigger man, ignore the petty shit.

[–]TheTrenTrannyTrain0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally I would have done the same. You gave her the warning but she just wouldn't listen.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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