Should I tell her that "I won't be a second choice"...?

throwhawayyyy · 2021-02-19T23:24:44+00:00

actions > words. also, you’ve gone on 3 or 4 dates and you want to LTR her? why not spin her as a plate then upgrade after a few months if you still want to

cunningcaring · 2021-02-20T00:49:48+00:00

Fuck them both and see what happens.

Musicgoon · 2021-02-20T00:46:54+00:00

Three or four dates and you haven't fucked her yet? That's as beta AF. And you want to LTR this chick that really is wasting your time to get attention?

Really read the sidebar and don't be so daft. This is pathetic.

MoreAlfa · 2021-02-20T01:19:20+00:00

You have options and that's cool, but instead of worrying about all of this right now, why don't you have fun? Date lots of chicks and have fun.

Why are you in a rush to have an LTR? Why are you stuck on this one girl? And finally, is she holding sex as a reward for LTR'ing her or holding out sex because she is a good girl? If that distinction matters to you, then you better find the answer.

testylose · 2021-02-20T02:35:41+00:00

You don’t tell her anything. Fall back and pursue your other options. It sounds like your the one chasing her, you keep going on dates and she’s not putting out. Why would you want to ltr someone who isn’t showing you attraction? Just because she answers the phone doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you. Girls like attention and your giving it to her for free as you keep calling her and taking her out. Fall back and let her wonder about you a little dude, this is what’s killing her attraction.

Protocol_Apollo · 2021-02-20T05:44:58+00:00

Have u even banged girl A?

And you can’t want a ltr, you can only be open to one.

It’s a girls job to chase commitment not yours

319Skew · 2021-02-20T07:14:24+00:00

OP asks advice. OP gets TRP advice. OP rejects advice. World is more complex then advice given. OP tells us all he's got experience and wisdom. Currently roleplaying as International Space Station. Taking things "slow" .

TheEndTrend · 2021-02-20T06:42:58+00:00

Some of you dudes need to get off Reddit and get out into the world and learn to think for yourselves instead of just believing everything TRP claims to be true. Test this shit out.

TheEndTrend · 2021-02-20T06:51:00+00:00

Let’s run the numbers real quick here. Just easy math:

If a girl that’s 18 goes on 12 dates a year and fucks all those guys (by at least the 3rd date) that means 4 guys a year. By the time she’s 28 her body-count is at 40...at least.

So let me ask you all: is that a woman you want to marry? One that just stepped off the cock-Carousel? This isn’t a tough concept to grasp...

Title	Should I tell her that "I won't be a second choice"...?
Author	TheEndTrend
Upvotes	0
Comments	46
Date	February 19, 2021 11:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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