So, last night, I went to a bar with a plate. It started with trivia and one beer, which was fun, but the night evolved into most of our ~12 person crew getting sloshier. Despite hanging out with a lot of smart people, the conversation dumbed down and became a feel-good idiocracy. I hate this about alcohol culture.

Additionally, the girl I was with was getting some guy to buy her and me drinks. This was fine, but she escalated to getting, like, 5 drinks off of him and then sharing a cigarette. I'm at a point where I really dislike alcohol and really really dislike how women behave in alcoholic environments. I also felt like she was disrespecting me by exploiting his offers of substances so much throughout the night.

I had a cutoff time of 12:30, because I need to sleep and sober up (I had 4 drinks over a 5 hour period.) Idk if my bitch was too drunk to remember or what, but she got very offended when I left with an, "alright, I'm out of here," around 12:45. This is at the point where she is sharing a cigarette with the other guy, mind you, so tbh I'm butthurt, but I'm also realizing that I'm wasting time.

I didn't bother with a midwest goodbye by saying a farewell to everyone in the bar, most of whom might not remember the night or that I was even there. I quickly said farewell just to the people in my immediate vicinity, including the girl, and went home. I posted the last communications we've had, which were via text.

Based on this SMS exchange and the story I've told:

1.) Did I handle this situation well? Could I have done better in some ways? I avoided expressing feelings of jealousy, partially because they are not very strong and partially because I think it would be unwise to discuss that shit. I also worry a bit that I was just being emotional and socially retarded. I believe that she was being very irrational and stepped out of line with her mode of speaking to me over SMS. This is abnormal and last night might be the drunkest I've seen her.

2.) Does the girl deserve some negative punishment, e.g. withdrawal of attention for a few days? Is that a good approach to bitchiness? This is my plan, as I like to make plates feel the consequences of falling out of line. I feel that her reaction was over the top, but doesn't warrant nexting, especially given her level of alcohol intoxication, which makes you more forgetful and emotional.