Shouldn't cheating in an LTR increase her attraction?

SemperPrimus · 2019-04-27T23:43:52+00:00

It can and it does. But it also makes her feel like shit and she may leave you. Same holds for men really. If a woman cheats shes essentially signaling higher smv and rejecting her LTR. Rejection breeds obsession and attraction but also hurt feelings

FereallyRed · 2019-04-27T23:53:46+00:00

Women would rather share an alpha than fuck a beta.

Read that somewhere.

Cheating is not an accurate word. It introduces the idea that you're doing something behind mommy's back, which leads down the path to the question of why do you feel like you need to hide?

I'm married, spin plates and play with subs with my wife's knowledge. I don't slap it in her face, she doesn't question me. Unless we're fucking and she wants daddy to tell her a story.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-27T23:48:29+00:00

No, that's dread. Cheating violates their notion of emotional attachment to you.

Harry_Fraud · 2019-04-27T23:45:31+00:00

If you give her your word as a friend that you’re exclusive, then go hook up with other chicks, that’s cheating. But also just lying, which is probably worse.

That being said, even if you are that high value of a dude, just be honest and it’ll probably go better than doing that shit behind their back. That’d be enforcing frame. If you want to see other girls too, just let her know!

watchguy45 · 2019-04-28T00:23:54+00:00

I’ve also seen betas cheat. They lose control of the relationship and get beaten down... then cheat with someone else as a way of acting out.

I prefer not to cheat.

trpchecker · 2019-04-28T18:27:01+00:00

That's why it's called heartbroken. They feel more attracted but their self esteem takes a huge hit. If your LTR has a high self respect it will take preference over her feelings towards you and she will begrudgingly leave. If she lacks self respect she'll just accept it and stay.

laserdicks · 2019-04-28T00:22:21+00:00

Her main concern (though she may not come to the conclusion until after her immediate emotional response) is whether other women find out.

She loses her social position if her man cheats. If she can keep her position (rare, as the side-piece gains position by doing so) in many cases shell turn a blind eye.

goatenciusmaximus · 2019-04-28T00:08:15+00:00

I'm kinda new to the red pill to give you an accurate answer, but I've seen two cases in which the husband which is an alpha despite being BP cheated on the wife, they found out get mad demanded them to do something like reforming the house and them got over it and kept the marriage going (without further punishment or retaliation), in one of those cases the husband still spin plates around but the wife does not get to know about it, she does not pretend not to see, she just don't look for it (Did you understand?). So I wouldn't say it increases attraction but she can surely ignore it in order to keep the man. Maybe seeing other women interested and/or flirting with you will can increase her attraction.

peaceful_strong_man · 2019-04-28T03:11:02+00:00

Polygamy

YourShadowScholar · 2019-04-28T09:04:39+00:00

Well obviously it does, but problem is, you gotta cheat right in front of her...and if that's happening, usually it turns into a 3-4-5-some etc...

Plus, kind of stops being "cheating" since "cheating" is something you do in secret...just fucking other girls in secret ain't gonna do nothin' fo ya

krusecontrol91 · 2019-04-28T02:05:02+00:00

You are just property to them that stuffs their pockets. They look for any excuse to get mad at you so you suck up and kiss ass.

Fantawaters · 2019-04-28T06:07:33+00:00

when red pill men, the chosen ones, turn to the dark side and embrace polygamy...

YOU WERE MEANT TO DESTROY THE SLUTS NOT JOIN THEM!!!

Title	Shouldn't cheating in an LTR increase her attraction?
Author	Rkingpin
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Date	April 27, 2019 11:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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