I've been abroad for 2 weeks and came back this week, hit up plate and arranged to meet up this evening. Early on in the day she asked if we will have food together after she has been to the gym or should she grab something for herself. I said we can have something together. I had dinner with my parents as they came over and didn't want to let them down so I messaged her that I have eaten and she should grab something to eat herself. So then replied with "I hate people that change plans last min" and I replied with "I hate people that make small things a big deal" she then went and posted eye roll gifs and emojis and said "Fine don't come around then bitch" (she calls everyone she is close with "bitch" in a joking manner) and I replied with "OK" then she sent me a middle finger meme. At this point I left her on read, she is usually well behaved and we do joke about but I didnt like the way she told me not to come around. I'm sure she is semi joking and just didnt like that fact that I wont be eating with her. She will probably text soon asking if I will be going over but my abundance is telling me to soft next her and get her hamster spinning?