Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my Snapchat

hatethiscity · 2019-12-17T19:31:43+00:00

A lot of people think RPs ultimate goal is to get pussy at all cost. This is very far off from TRPs core foundation. You can believe in red pill and still have your own set of values. Regardless of having abundance or not, I also wouldn't want to be the guy cucking the milfs poor husband. There's nothing wrong with soft nexting that whore even without abundance. Keep working on yourself and your communication, that is what I'd focus on.

abomba24 · 2019-12-17T20:18:57+00:00

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MassiveLeftist · 2019-12-17T19:32:46+00:00

Either bang and forget, or understand you made a good choice.

Married women will get clingy, and always get caught.

Foolishoe · 2019-12-17T20:43:54+00:00

I don't know man, going with your gut is critical. Right action lives there.

Sucks to live that part of life where a woman is being a dishonorable piece of shit.

__TheDon__ · 2019-12-17T23:28:58+00:00

Props my dude. I never fuck any married women. I don’t want to be the reason her husband ends up shooting himself, or her kid ends up being traumatized by his cheating whore of a mother. So many horny milfs are available and easy to pick up, but I don’t think it’s worth it. I avoid fucking not because I don’t want to, but for the husband and the poor child instead. Like you said, another chad can come in and fill her holes, I could care less. You have to let go of FOMO mindset. Abundance mentality is heavenly once you acquire it. Take pleasure in turning these cougars on, and move on to the next target.

fannyfire · 2019-12-17T23:15:29+00:00

If anything man, this shows that you have true abundance.

mksu911 · 2019-12-17T21:27:03+00:00

Getting involved with married women is a bad idea. You never know how crazy her cuck might be.

Herdsengineers · 2019-12-17T21:29:44+00:00

You made such a good decision here. A woman like this going to inject drama into your life one way or another, and getting laid isn't worth it. Go find a woman that doesn't have a kid, doesn't have a husband that can get pissed off, etc. Don't invite this kind of drama into your life.

Again - good job!

unnatural_by_nature · 2019-12-17T20:59:20+00:00

I never fuck with married women. Enjoying the decline is one thing, but I’ve been on the other end of that scenario and don’t want to be part of that.

strainer123 · 2019-12-17T23:58:20+00:00

Find her husband and send her the photos, I'm on the guy's side everytime, no honey, I'm not going to be your lover, I'm gonna be your husband's informer instead.

yumyumgivemesome · 2019-12-17T21:16:45+00:00

The fact that she has a kid doesn't mean that she's married. Nonetheless, if you're not interested, then there's no reason to continue.

2019-12-17T21:16:19+00:00

Don’t care if another Chad comes along and blows up her life

Why assume this? She might be discreet and just needs the itch scratched.

oldslut · 2019-12-17T21:40:05+00:00

only you can decide. if you didn't feel it, for whatever reason, you're right. don't think too much about it. just know, if you continue on your red pill journey, she won't be the last married chick with kids that wants to fuck.

SalporinRP · 2019-12-17T22:12:12+00:00

I've fucked a few girls who've had boyfriends before but fucking a married woman just seems next level.

Dude might fucking go apeshit and murder you or something when he finds out, especially with a kid involved. Just not worth it. I think you did the right thing.

jrterry1969 · 2019-12-17T23:04:08+00:00

I've lived a long life. The only sex I have truly regretted was the sex I turned down. You are probably making the right decision, but ....I'd probably go for it. Her life will probably blow up anyway, with or without your help.

frognads · 2019-12-17T23:36:45+00:00

That's definitely a 'not a big deal & move on' situation. I don't fuck around with single mommys.

4thAndLong · 2019-12-17T21:32:14+00:00

Doing what you want is RP, my guy. As long as the decisions are made in your frame that's what matters.

RPNorvell · 2019-12-17T22:31:20+00:00

Snapchatting single mom.

Many red flags.

More trouble than they're worth.

2019-12-18T03:21:21+00:00

You do you, man. A lot of guys on here enjoy fucking other men's women, and that's fine, but for me it's just not something I like to do. It feels seedy and like a shitty thing to do. I also get turned off by women who hit on and flirt with me when I know they have a boyfriend/husband, like they're a shitty person and it just doesn't work for me. It feels like a big gross elephant in the room in my mind and it makes them unattractive to me. Maybe it's a BP part of me, and I know other people would do it to me but I believe you should hold yourself to your own standards and not the standards of other people. But I'm also a guy who likes to only have one woman at a time, so I'm not your typical RP guy who likes to spin lots of plates. I have abundance mentality still knowing I could find another very quickly if I get tired of my current one, but I just like having that monogamous thing going on even if the life cycle is short and I move from one to the next quickly at times.

As a lot of people say, TRP is a toolbox. Pick the tools that work for you and use them to live the best life you like and be the best version of yourself you can be.

Anecdote: I matched with a hot nympho on Tinder recently. She told me she likes to line up about 5 men a night to just come to her hotel room and bang her one after the other, but they never meet. She times it just right so one guy leaves before another arrives. Sounded like a bit of dirty fun, and she was hot af. She even told me she could hook me up with other women for similar things, kind of like a gateway to a dirty ring of sexy nymphos. Anyway, of course because I had her WA number, IG suggested her as a friend and she stupidly had an open profile where I could see photos of her husband and kids doing family stuff. Instant turn off. I just didn't respond after that.

MVWeiss · 2019-12-17T20:35:36+00:00

Good.

Women are moral-less creatures, if we as Men don’t implement morals society will never flourish.

I’d have warned the husband

PUA_Fan · 2019-12-17T21:30:35+00:00

Lmao

bumbuff · 2019-12-17T23:02:40+00:00

The core of RP is to have your own set of values. You don't need to copy and paste some of the PUA's that visit these forums.

You have values, they are part of your frame. In this instance, however meek, you kept frame. Small win for someone still bettering themselves.

Monitorul · 2019-12-18T01:16:43+00:00

I think you did the right thing for yourself. Who knows what would happen if her husband was crazy and went after you with a gun, you don't want to get into such shit. I had a fling with a married woman and she kept contacting me, it became a nuisance to try to get rid of her without the situation escalating against me.

Zero-Milk · 2019-12-18T03:08:52+00:00

As others have stated, redpill philosophy isn't about putting women as your priority. It's about putting yourself as the priority. Make no mistake, getting laid is all well and good, but not if the pursuit of it comes at the expense of your own growth. Sleeping with that whore would've crippled your self-worth because your personal moral code rejects the idea.

What I'm trying to say is this: you stayed true to yourself, man, and that's what this shit is all about to begin with. Have a beer and enjoy the evening, sir.

NationalLurkersParty · 2019-12-18T07:36:46+00:00

Post-wall women will literally do anything for a bang. They make 19 year old freshman guys look disciplined and picky by comparison. But whatever you do, don't ever get anywhere near women like this, they've made a life out of fleecing guys by using their coochie as a "get anything I want" card.

2019-12-18T00:08:45+00:00

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SpicyYeetJuice · 2019-12-17T20:59:32+00:00

You self-cucked yourself I did this shit a couple of months ago I heavily regretted it and never let it happened again I suggest you do the same. Also don’t fool yourself you know why you came on this sub.

Protocol_Apollo · 2019-12-17T20:31:33+00:00

Fuck girls that you want to fuck.

Do you not to fuck her because you genuinely want to or because society told you not to?

If the latter is the case, why do you feel the need to uphold someone else’s contract? Look up “trees” on the main sub.

If you do fuck her, make sure you do it at her house. You don’t want him knowing where you live.

yute931 · 2019-12-17T20:29:32+00:00

How easy is it to pull a milf off tinder??

MattyAnon · 2019-12-18T00:18:33+00:00

Any words from the community

You had doubts because single mother has child? I don't fucking get it.

Title	Soft nexted a married MILF who was blowing up my Snapchat
Author	therealbigoso
Upvotes	133
Comments	73
Date	December 17, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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