So occasionally I fuck up, by that I mean I get desperate and fuck anything with two legs and a pulse, as I cant often pull because I live very far away, at home and am moving away soon so no commitment. So right now I essentially have a rather chubby FWB, which I constantly have an argument with my dick about on the basis or "atleast your getting some/anything is better than nothing and you will be less desperate getting laid so you will get hotter women" VS "You dont need sex, you just came out of a relationship on your terms with the goal of only fucking 7/10's and up no matter what".

Something that I believe would help stem this is the ability to say no to women, something that just thinking about I have trouble understanding how, and feel bad for doing so. I am sure this goes back to how I was brought up along with culture, as I have no trouble telling a guy to stop/fuck off or whatever but i feel like I am hurting a girl if I do this to them.

My options as I see it are

  1. Saying im just not ready for it after the breakup. Which is a coward way out in my opinion, basically not being honest but it doesnt hurt her as much.

  2. Im just not interested right now. I feel bad as I have been leading on for a second round since our one night stand, and doing this would be completely flipping on my stance previously.

  3. Sleep with her one more time so I dont double back on what I have been saying (Dick thoughts: "why not") and then call it off after.

  4. FUCK OFF FATTY! In which case, why did I sleep with her before?