I'm at a low point after a lot of bad luck and mistakes so be gentle boys. I made a decision that basically ostrisized me from a friend group and the group contains a girl I had been hitting it off with. I looked kind of like a fuck up in front of everyone even tho people still like me nobody agreed with me or took my side although most stayed neutral. How do a gracefully back out of this one? Just ditch the whole friend group?

I mostly would talk with the girl outside the friend group 1 on 1 so should I still try to talk to her separately? I'm thinking the frame should be that I have no interest in the friend group anymore and then just talk to her separately and if she's not still responding positively then just bail completely